So, i notice very often that when i open a girl like in instagram (wich is rare) most of the times the girl will just end up not responding after a few hours, or a few days.

And in the same matter, if im person to person in a day situation, i usually know how to drive the converstation in a way that i can display value, however in a nightclub i have no idea how to do this, and most important, i dont know in either of the cases how to build enough value in the eyes of the girl that if i remove my attention she will seek it again.

Hope you understand what i mean. Sorry if i didnt use the right tag.