How to build sexual tension over text before first date?

EcoastDistrib · 2019-07-27T20:16:13+00:00

You don’t want to this. This could scream thirsty

sinbad2011 · 2019-07-27T23:10:16+00:00

Dont have a conversation over text.

420roadie69 · 2019-07-27T23:54:16+00:00

By not really replying much and when you do take 2 hours at least until it's after 11pm. I usually don't like texting much at all before the first date

readitornothereicome · 2019-07-28T07:22:54+00:00

Just don’t.

smoothmax · 2019-07-28T00:03:33+00:00

Depends on how smooth and funny you can be. A lot of advice says, "don't do it" (see the other comments on this thread). But some guys use text as a tool to make a bit of a spark, build suspense and tension, and keep a girl interested.

playingfire.com has lots of examples, based on Tinder matches. Their standard MO is to text for a while with a couple of on-point jokes and questions (about goals and logistics) then make a voice call to establish their warmth and humor "in person" (on the phone) so the connection feels more real and human.

I've been doing stuff like this and it works. It took a couple of years of sending lame, spastic texts before I got serious, and studied the best examples/online advice out there. It's hard to describe the technique exactly. I've been trying to give examples on other threads and I get roasted for it. A good rule is, if you have a grade 7 vocabulary, you don't speak or write very well and you're not very witty then you should text as little as possible and hope that your animal attraction will work for you when you meet in person.

EDIT ... just search for "text game" on the web and on youtube, read what's out there, buy a book if it's highly recommended, filter out the bad or unworkable advice, and start experimenting.

Practically anyone with a life (who has a job, school, hobbies) has lots of girls in his orbit who he doesn't necessarily want to pick up, but you can "game" them by experimenting with being pleasant and funny through text messages. You've got the opportunity to go over logistics (planning work or school meetings), seal the date with a phone call, and deal with ghosting/flakes.

Title	How to build sexual tension over text before first date?
Author	LordMvulcan
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	July 27, 2019 8:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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