How to completely get past an ex

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-03-17T13:06:00+00:00

You grew attached to your ex by sharing experiences with her over time.

You'll grow unattached to your ex by having new experiences (preferably with other people) over time.

Big_TX · 2016-03-17T19:47:29+00:00

When thoughts and feeling of her come up try to look at the feeling. Let the thought of what whey want but don't ruminate. Focus on the feeling. Let it engolf you and allow it to do what ever it does. And embrace it. After a wile it will leave you. (It may take one swag ion or it may take more.) there is a book called letting go the pathway to surrender. It's really good. There is some woo woo stuff that sound rediculiouslt and some it it like clearly happens in life and so its ontresting to see that Stuff. You can't take what you eat to in regards to the woo woo stuff. But the letting go technique has nothing woo woo about it. (Obviously do this in privet, you don't wanna get all sad and sit at work)

Couple that with building an emotional connection with someone and you should be good.

P.s. The more present you are the more chemistry you can feel with girls.

speakermonkey · 2016-03-17T08:11:45+00:00

https://youtu.be/9mbp0DugfCA

mula_talks · 2016-03-18T23:37:29+00:00

Just more time bro. Been there it sucks.

fezzesarecool4768 · 2016-03-23T00:59:38+00:00

It takes time man. Honestly, Cee Lo Green helped me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pc0mxOXbWIU

Songs like these just helped me change my mindset from "poor me" to "Hell Yeah! I'm the man, and I'm going to show everyone how awesome I am!" I started hitting the gym and getting stronger, started eating better, made better career choices. I felt better about where I was, but still felt empty about not having her in my life.

It was hard to move on, it indeed took me time, but what really got me over her was the next one. I did my best to leave myself open saying "I just need to start talking with girls again," and then it evolved into making out with them, and then sleeping with them. I still felt empty. I would see these girls for a few weeks maybe, but it would end. And then, I met a new girl. Within two dates I had forgotten about my ex, and was thinking this new girl was real LTR material. It didn't work out, but I felt better. I finally felt like I could go out and meet someone else again, and be happy in a LTR with another girl, and the rest has been great since. It always sucks the first time, and it takes time to move on. You have to let yourself be open to possibilities. You're not going to recapture the spark you had with your ex, but you are going to experience something different - different isn't bad, it's different. And, it can even be better than what you had before. Since my first LTR, I've had shorter but more meaningful relationships.

Good Luck OP.

Title	How to completely get past an ex
Author	Honor_Code
Upvotes	10
Comments	6
Date	March 17, 2016 7:45 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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