How to destroy overthinking.

Overthinking cripples guys results in dating. They are trying to find the right answer to get the perfect result.

You don't need to overthink this because nothing bad actually happens if you don't get the result in a specific interaction. I guess if you were like a helicopter pilot in Vietnam then you need to make sure you do everything perfectly.

Your mind is trying to protect you. It just wants to make sure that you're safe and no one is going to drop a rock on your head. Once you start approaching and speaking with people it will notice that nothing bad has happened and relax.

What you say doesn't matter. Go out and start talking to people. The cashier at the grocery store the old dude pumping gas next to you. It doesn't matter. Say nonsense things. Ask people if they know where the blueberry Farm is whatever. Free yourself.

Don't be a dick. Come from a place of good energy not from a place of ridicule or trying to put some one down. When you're first starting out you don't have to be the cocky funny superstar. You can just get out of your head. I see you guys were brand new trying to do these things which take more calibration. It's like me starting a business. Instead of writing an article I imagine making a feature film. I do this to keep myself from doing the work at hand. It's easier to imagine us doing this great thing rather than just doing the simple thing that's in front of us.

As we continue to practice our craft, new distinctions will become apparent to us. But the only way to practice is to practice in real life. Whether that's writing or starting a business or approaching a woman. Quite often we get so caught in our head and in concepts.

This is just fear taking over. I've been approaching for a while so I don't necessarily feel the fear there. But when I'm posting these words this is new to me so I do feel the fear. I know what I'm talking about but I don't know if it's being conveyed clearly. So what is the result I don't want to do it. What is the solution do it anyways. Why? Maybe one guy resonates with this post and it benefits him.

Why should we approach the girl. Because if we don't maybe she spends the rest of her life with some guy that she's not supposed to be with. Maybe the two of us have a beautiful child together who ends up solving cold fusion or some shit. Whatever it may be there's always a deeper why when we're doing things.

You're going to find your own Zen. Nobody actually knows the way. I've been studying and practicing game for 20 years. I've had threesomes and all sorts of amazing experiences. I've broken up with girls and been broken up with and wanted to die. And even through all of this I don't have the answers. But I will tell you this. Your formula is going to be unique to you. Take all of this advice and consider it like ingredients that you're going to put in your stew. And the only way to know how your stew taste is to start cooking. So take a little piece of advice and try that today and see how it fits with you. Journal relax give yourself a love for taking action today. And then do it again tomorrow. Don't take this stuff so personal. I know that's easier said than done. As I'm building a business I feel the exact same feeling of someone first approaching. Fuck this no one understands me. It's not true. It takes time to get into your rhythm. You fucking got this.