‘I met a cougar a couple years ago for a drink. She thought I was too young for her after our first date so there wasn’t a second date.

A couple weeks ago I hit her up to see how she was doing. We started talking and we were going to go clubbing tonight per her suggestion, but we decided on boating on a lake instead.

Any tips on escalating? It’s only us two on a pontoon buts it’s in public. She told me it’s not a date but whatever.