If you’re ever fixated on one girl and find yourself saying “She’s the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen”, “she’s the one”, “ Go outside. Go out in public and people watch.

While you’re people watching you’ll realize that you’re attracted to many different girls of different ages and races/ethnicities. You’ll find that some girls who you’d never consider attractive are attractive in person. And that would be in just one place.

For example: I was at Target shopping for pool toys for my niece and nephew when I saw this girl who was folding clothes in the men’s department. She was skinny, taller and wore glasses and had a girl next door vibe to her. I don’t usually find skinnier girls attractive but something about her was unique. Her and her coworker were having a conversation about COVID and LA County and I chimed in, blah blah blah. Nothing came out of the minor conversation but albeit it was a good enough experience to expand my taste.

I have other things to do and other places to go and who knows who I’ll end up finding attractive then.