I was just gonna get laid with the hottest chick in my area . I got a big push of confidence. Then strangely when I went to hang up with my friends and some people I just knew (they were not my friends but they knew and I knew them) after some time of being relaxed and confident I started to lose my confidence because I felt I was a little bit "off". The problem was that there was a girl there as well. It's what comes next when you stay like an idiot saying nothing or feeling like you say nothing even if you don't, or at least that's how you feel. It's not that I truly believe that I was an idiot but you just feel a little bit awkward and we all do.

I tried to get my confidence back by messing up with my mind but somehow I was in a jail. It's not that I was THAT unconfident, but I wanted to look like an Alpha or at least a Dominant male to myself. Well that prevented me.

What I'm looking for is psychological tricks to feed up your confidence at any time you want. [Before answering you should consider that I want to play with my mind, not "handle" a situation]