I’ve been going to a therapist and figuring out a lot of my own shit but there’s one thing I’m still trying to mentally beat.

Never dated a girl or had sex. How do I get over the idea of of me getting in my own head in general, but more specifically with going out to meet girls?

I assume my roommates will judge me if I bring back a girl. I assume I’ll judge myself too much too. Since I’ve never been with a girl I feel she will notice me being slightly off in my behaviors and nervous. I also can imagine all my roommates talking because I finally bring back a girl.

Essentially how do I get over all this? And how do I not feel like a loser/creepy for just going out to a bar alone to meet girls? Or jus walking around and talking to people? I’d feel weird if someone asked me “what did you today?” and I didn’t have a response that makes me proud or normal. I feel like I’ll appear as if I’m a guy just trying to get laid.

Thanks in advance! Been lurking here a couple months and learning a bunch of stuff I’m slowly putting into action.