How to get past pandemic concerns when engaging physically?

adolge_dogeler · 2020-07-17T21:57:53+00:00

Buddy I won’t keep hopes up on meeting people in person. If America is smart (assuming you’re in America) we will go into another lockdown. Then the only bet is online dating :(

Plus side: so much free time! Workout! Play video games! Read! Do work to forward your career! Come out of the lockdown like a champ :)

hunterpua · 2020-07-17T20:43:20+00:00

If someone you don't know is willing to meet with you for a date then they're willing to let you gradually earn more and more of their trust as time goes by.

Pandemic or not, this is the case.

If you had a girlfriend would she be unwilling to kiss you during this pandemic if you don't live in the same house? i.e. One of you has to expose themselves to the outside in order for you to get together and kiss.

Unlikely. Because she trusts that you care about her and don't want to cause her harm. She also values you more than a random person so to a have a moment of intimacy with you is more worth the risk than it would be with someone she couldn't give 2 shits about.

But remember, with all relationships, there was a point when you didn't trust or value each other at all.

You always started from zero and built up from there.

That means, you can totally build things up with new people during this pandemic.

At this point, when things are opening up and people are going on dates again, the pandemic isn't really stopping you from kissing girls. The only effect the pandemic may have now is slowing you down.

The thing that would really stop you is if you're unable to get a girl to feel comfortable enough and desire you enough to want to kiss you.

But as long as you can build things up to that point, slower or not, she will happily kiss you.

Kenic_In_MD · 2020-07-17T19:45:55+00:00

Until a vaccine is found and COVID is no longer an issue I would be more concerned with personal health over getting booty in the short term. You're better off meeting someone and getting to know them as a person rather than nakey times right away. Not only do you have to worry about STDs and the standard is she crazy or not aspect, but now you have to worry about, if they're sick or not. Now's just a bad time for meeting new women in general.

However to answer your question, your jokes would certainly land well and sure a date should be alright especially if she is willing to risk the same on a date with you. Play it by ear. be flexible, but watch out for number 1 in the end. You.

cmc_920 · 2020-07-17T19:57:17+00:00

If she has agreed to meet you then she probably isn't as worried as you think she is. Treat it as a normal date, flirt, touch, escalate and read her body language the whole time.

Dating is still going on and many single people have been sexless for a few months.

rickyroyal37 · 2020-07-18T20:45:11+00:00

You're thinking WAY to far in advance instead of taking action. Go out this weekend and start getting to the point of walking women to thier cars.

If you get that far and she's attracted to you, she won't probably won't mind if you kiss her.

Masks are just like religion people are just doing it for appearances, they don't actually believe in them.

A physical test you can do is play thumb wars with her. If she's willing to lock thumbs with you she'll probably be willing to lock lips with you.

SpankMyMetroid · 2020-07-19T08:52:57+00:00

She won’t trust trash like you kid, sorry. Better gargle that bleach yourself.

Title	How to get past pandemic concerns when engaging physically?
Author	SpankMyMetroid
Upvotes	10
Comments	12
Date	July 17, 2020 7:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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