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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
[–]ajd338 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it hasn't happened before, be understanding and empathize. Life happens and whatever.
If it's happened multiple times, question why it's happening.
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[–]bojanglez34 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she reaches out and doesn’t ask to reschedule just ignore ?
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly this if someone flakes and reschedules you are golden. If someone flakes and you don’t hear from them they were wasting your time
[–]Jock_Status 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just brush it off with it’s fine next time happens again I’d cut her off, but another note alwyas be prepared for flakes ALWAYS idc if she says she’s gonna meet with you on the day of the date always beprepares for a flake if a girl and I have plans I’m always thinking what am I gonna do if she flakes..(stay home, TV, gym, approach, call someone else) etc etc be prepared
[–]bojanglez34 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do they usually try to come back? I told her no worries and to hit me up next time she’s free. Do I let her ask me out if she hits me up out the blue ?
[–]Jock_Status 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah definitely just wait but don’t even worry about this girl man,approach more women tinder whatever you do just stick to that. Find more women
Yea I have another date lined up tomorrow for Christmas lights and dinner.. she asked me out. Just was hoping to bag this one girl but she was distant the week leading up to the date so went ahead and kept a backup ready.
[–]kettlebell_workout 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Work more on investment.
[–]luguxd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean with this?
[–]Handle-me-timber 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Believe it or not people flake all the time. Has anyone ever recommended staying in the conversation for 5-10 minutes after getting the number? Could definitely still flake but it reduces the odds.
[–]bojanglez34 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Should I let her ask me to get together next ?
[–]Handle-me-timber 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yeah and keep meeting other people. I generally wouldn’t even text her first if she blew off a date.
If she reaches out again then you gotta raise the attraction level, and then you can ask her on a date again. It’s not likely unless she genuinely had a good reason to flake.
[–]bojanglez34 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Raise the attraction as in be more distant busy etc? And would it be okay to reach out in like a week or so? This was her first flake or just let her come back in general
[–]Handle-me-timber 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Nah I don’t mean like being distant. If she texts you, try getting her on the phone so you can display a more attractive personality (or just remind her why she gave you her number). Then you can try to get her out again.
I find that being distant only really works if she is chasing you, and given the flake I’d say that isn’t the case for your scenario.
Edit: If you want to reach out, you’ll have to offer value without expecting a response.
[–]bojanglez34 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If I wanted to reach out how long should I give it?
[–]Handle-me-timber 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Personal preference is like the next Sunday or Monday when she won’t have plans to compete with for attention. And if I do get her to say yes to the date I’m scheduling it for a Wednesday for the same reason.
[–]bojanglez34 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m currently Monday thru Friday at work and only have sat and sun off should I wait until like a Thursday ?
[–]Handle-me-timber 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well I don’t know what your lockdown status is but you don’t do the drinks after work meetup? It doesn’t matter what day you talk to her, those days are just more likely to work because you aren’t competing with plans she might have made with her girlfriends. Friday or Saturday are typically the days you definitely want to avoid because because everyone tries to make plans for those days.
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