How to improve your social skills?

Rude-Kaleidoscope-58 · 2021-05-23T18:07:26+00:00

I don't hold any absolute truth but here's what worked for me since last year :

Living in a dynamic big city helps a LOT
Find meet-up, clubs and group activities in which you're interested in
Create /improve your own look based on your personality. Without being too marginal, except if it's one of your goal ofc. Wear clothes in which you can identify yourself as your best self.
Have an mentor, an idol, imaginary or real, and whenever you want, act like you think they'ld act
Accept all parties invitations, and organize some
During social events, never stay too luch with people you know. Just introduce yourself randomly to people in a subtle way, or sometimes a theatral way. If you have a funny vibe they 'll like your approach.
Polarize what you say and respect your opinions. Create debates. Talk about politics. Suggest to try a new board game. They' ll remember you. Affirm your point of view, but accept everyone's vision. People like being listened without being judged. If you are too serious, then you're predictable, therefore boring.
Improve your general knowledge, creativity, and you'll start seeing "patterns" in discussions
Watch the movie "Yes man" and the Robin Schultz clip "Sugar". Yeah I'm joking a bit here but it gives good energy level, which is mandatory for being social
Sleep until your body naturally wake up. This is again related to mental "energy"
Life is related to movement. It's better to do a bad choice (going further) than no choice at all (not moving anywhere), because you'll learn.

To sum up : don't take anything too seriously in life except death of your family and friends / irreversible events. People seek distraction in social interactions. Level up the party energy and they'll like you immediately.

I didn't talk about women at all, because if you see the world in a loose way and are social naturally, you'll start to notice how to build sexual tension and connection in your relationships.

Title	How to improve your social skills?
Author	ParamedicEastern1997
Upvotes	2
Comments	1
Date	May 21, 2021 3:18 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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