How to keep girls interested through text?

Woujo · 2016-09-12T02:49:59+00:00

First, YOU CANNOT KEEP GIRLS INTERESTED THROUGH TEXT.

Second, if you don't think they'll remember you, then a few texts isn't going to fix anything. They either want to see you again or they don't. Just wait till they're back in town. You're not a clown there to entertain them.

Think about it this way. Let's imagine they met Brad Pitt at a party. Would they forget him if he didn't text them in the meantime?

legalwifi · 2016-09-12T02:50:16+00:00

Mirror message, text at the pace she texts. For example if she texts you back within 5mins do the same, if she texts back within the hour take an hour. Keep away from rapport over the phone, save it for when you start hanging out in person with her. I would lean towards more banter than anything, you want to keep her on her toes so don't be afraid to flirt but know your limits because if you go too far you risk making her feel uncomfortable.

taa_dow · 2016-09-12T04:00:04+00:00

they remember you.

boltsnuts · 2016-09-12T02:42:07+00:00

Try punctuation.

MindsEvolve · 2016-09-12T13:50:24+00:00

I agree with Woujo in this thread. At the same time, you can always use this as practice to see if you can come up with a conversation so entertaining that they love texting with you. That's where creative banter comes in. This will have to rely on the hope that they're not busy with something very entertaining while they're traveling wherever they are. You could come up with a game to play over text, or simply practice creative banter. For one example, a girl told me the only play she'd seen was Mary Poppins. So, I said I would dress up as Mary Poppins for our date to make sure we recognize each other. Half of our texts were just joking about that after a certain point. You can make fun out of anything.

PM me if you need more examples or help.

IntrovertedBadass · 2016-09-12T14:53:38+00:00

Hey Lowizz, I can understand that you want to see these girls again. You just got a little victory (you got their snapchat) and that gives you momentum to go on. So I think you did the right thing to ask this. Here’s the deal, my friend. It’s difficult to give you a ‘correct’ answer because it depends on how your initial interaction was with them. Were you excellent? Were they really attracted to you? Did you go direct on them? or did you ask their snapchat trough an indirect approach (with an excuse)? With that said, there is no black or white. There is no rule as to “DON’T go for text conversations” or “DO go for text conversations”. It all depends on the girl. But here is a general rule to follow: always start with a very short text conversation and go for the date as fast as possible. From that point on it depends on the girl. If she keeps texting you, then it means she likes texting with you, and you can text some more. If she doesn’t than don’t text her anymore after she agreed for the date. now since you don’t have a date planned yet, what should you do? How can you be top of mind with her without being needy? How can you make sure they keep thinking of you during those 2 or 3 weeks? The answer is use “ping texts”. Ping texts are funny little texts that you send to a girl and that don’t require a response from her. For example, you could write her. “I just saw a dog on a skate board!” or “Just saw a man run into a lantern. Ouch! I thought that only happened in romantic comedies ;)”. Or you could write her something just DIFFERENT (girls like this one a lot): “What are you not doing right now, that you want to be doing?” Now depending on their answer you could have a short conversation. But always make sure to end it first. Next wait a few days and send a new ping text. Oh and if they don’t answer: no problem. Just wait 3 or 4 days and send another ping text. I recommend the following: send them 2 ping texts the first 7 days (with 3 days between the two ping texts). The second week again 2 ping texts, and the third week 1 ping text. After the second ping text you’ll have a pretty good idea if they like you or not. If they don’t answer two ping text in a row, than you probably will not get the date when they are back. But if they answer and with laughs and they try to engage with you in a text conversation, than there’s a big chance they will want to see you when they are back in town. Hope this helps.

TheXXL · 2016-09-12T15:37:46+00:00

They both said possibly and that they were available not available now cause they are out of town, but are back in 2 to 3 weeks.

You mean they wrote: "maybe"? You know that maybe means "no." either way, don't get your hopes up, they gave you their snapchat for a reason, most likely the ease of ignoring you, i am sure they are simply not interested and will soon tell you "i have a boyfriend, sorry."

Next time go for her phone number, and only if you hit it off in person, so the girl is waiting for your call, instead of thinking: "how can i get him off my back without drama?".

coconutcircles · 2016-09-12T05:29:32+00:00

I always give extra kudos to guys who message me "good morning" or "good night".

Title	How to keep girls interested through text?
Author	lowiizz
Upvotes	7
Comments	9
Date	September 12, 2016 2:36 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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