Hi, I have a problem being ,,nice" so a lot recommended book ,,No more mr nice guy". There is a lot of true about myself in it and I am trying to change some behaviours with its help. Problem is when I am trying not be nice, be funny, make other people happy etc I am starting to be asshole. Like I can be only extreme one or another. Maybe you have any advices for me? I want to change but sometimes I am not sure I am doing it right way