How I do it, I just heart her story like a couple of them, then I make sure she likes mine back. If she does that, I'd be like "you hearting my stuff and I'm hearting yours, why we not together". Once she respond I would just wait for a couple days to respond back to her saying I would like to get to know you / I wanna take you out / Thought you were pretty and I'd like to get your phone number so we can go out some time.

When you first meet a girl, you give her two compliments above the neck (nice lips, hair, eyes, intelligence, morals ethics, etc) whatever crap comes to your mind. Then, just when she begins to think that your just another nice guy to play around with all night without getting naked, you insult her. Flip the power dynamic around and let her know you are here to play. Stop thinking about her and caring too much because it's the feelings for her that are killing your game. If you learned one thing today it's this: the power of a relationship lies with whoever cares less. It's about charisma, confidence and nonchalant that's how you play the game and win.

Any thoughts on being a player when it comes to spitting game & sliding in dms? Feel free to comment

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