How to steer the conversation into going home with them?

caesarfecit · 2020-08-04T14:02:21+00:00

Touch her. You need a sexual connection to get her to go home with you, otherwise what's the point?

When a guy says "hey you should come over and check out my vinyl collection/meet my dog/hang at my after-party" - she's not fooled. Those things are just the face saving excuse.

Conversation just gets you in the door and gives her something to ostensibly focus on other than your body. Sexual chemistry and tension is what makes her leave with you. The trick is not to overdo it and not get too physical too soon.

pua_max · 2020-08-04T07:31:17+00:00

Having good logistics makes it trash easy. I’ve lived in a complex where there was a pool and a grill. I’d invite the girl over for a burger at the grill and my apt was literally right there. On the alternative side, I’ve lived in a hotel for a kind of extended period of time and I didn’t have a car, so needed to get the girl into an Uber all the time from the date spot to go home. For that I’d just say hey come check out my place, we can watch (something). Setting up sexual tension is p important in this case.

bear02161994 · 2020-08-04T22:43:58+00:00

Well, I would suggest inviting her out for drinks. Pick a date and choose a location. If possible either pick her up or have her meet at your place and tell her “parking is bad at so and so place, it’d be best if we just rode in one car” you’ll have a much better chance of hooking up that way, since it creates an opportunity for hooking up to happen. Like another poster said go for some light touches like arm or shoulder. See if she’s okay with this, if she moves away or crosses her arms, then that’s a no go. Also, just like the same poster said, towards the end of the date, invite her over and say something like “wanna meet my dog/cat, “ basically just make up any excuse.

STD_Tyler · 2020-08-04T08:59:30+00:00

You don't take them home via "conversation". You have to start by making out with them first. duh!

Title	How to steer the conversation into going home with them?
Author	Jukenzal
Upvotes	7
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Date	August 4, 2020 6:50 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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