How To Stop Feeling Like A Failure - or why your feelings towards yourself have less to do with your worth and more to do with how you look at your goals

Aneurysm · 2016-06-27T00:00:33+00:00

Mate, I just want to thank you, right now, because over the last couple of months your words have been such a great help! The way you describe the cognitive psychology and the practical advice is so salient. No bullshit. Your articles always leave me feeling more positive. It has genuinely helped me more than anything else I have read or heard. Thank you.

AlwaysInjured · 2016-06-27T07:29:46+00:00

Thank you for this article. It really put things into perspective for me. I have been dealing with feelings of worthlessness for the past few years. Most of the time I've felt that I was a loser because I was a loser and good things just didnt happen to me. Your article has made me think about things very differently.

For example, I was a very successful runner in high school and haven't been able to replicate that recently because of numerous setbacks leading to my eventual quitting the sport. You were fucking spot on about the fact that I way overattributed my past success to personal strength, will, and talent. In reality, I just ran every day and put in the work with my teammates and we all got better. There wasn't a secret formula or anything. I was just consistent with my training and trusted my coach's training and set my goals high.

Now in life I realize that I need to just be consistent in the process and not focus endlessly on the end goal because that's just been wasting my time and energy.

Again, thank you. This article has made me think and reflect more than anything I've experienced in a long time.

dontscreef · 2016-06-27T00:55:58+00:00

Great link. Thank you.

roadmaptonowhere · 2016-06-27T15:14:45+00:00

Visko, as I commented on before... you're fucking great!

Don't stop writing and giving advice because the way you put things into perspective is just priceless. Thanks!

Chuqse · 2016-06-27T16:32:52+00:00

This such a simple yet powerful piece. Don't know how I got here but I just subscribed to your blog. Thank you

Cat_Reaper · 2016-06-28T07:03:33+00:00

This explodes my brain.

Title	How To Stop Feeling Like A Failure - or why your feelings towards yourself have less to do with your worth and more to do with how you look at your goals
Author	Life_Uncivilized
Upvotes	186
Comments	15
Date	June 26, 2016 4:11 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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