I (20M) understand this is a common way to flirt and can be very attractive. But my problem is that i either can’t think of anything or when i do tease them, i seem to go too far. They often look genuinely offended and annoyed and i find myself either not getting on w them (cause they view me as a dick now) or i back peddle what i said (which i assume isn’t very attractive either). I can make girls laugh and shit but direct flirting is really hard for me.

When i look at other guys, they seem to be more of a dick than me (like to the point where i see other ppl i’m with roll their eyes or look genuinely annoyed at them) but they still pull the girl at the end of the night.