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How to tell the difference between shy and not interested?

Goatmo

July 11, 2016

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Title	How to tell the difference between shy and not interested?
Author	Goatmo
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	July 11, 2016 9:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4sdi80/how_to_tell_the_difference_between_shy_and_not/
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[–]Woujo 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]M_Knight1 10 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Goatmo[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]M_Knight1 10 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah that's how the majority of all cold approaches will start for anyone, even professional PUAs. Unless shes already interested in you or you have demonstrated social proof or have status in a given environment.

What do you expect her to do?

Be like "Hello complete stranger, I will be happy to entertain you, and supply all the conversation until its closing time and we leave together."

"Upon meeting a strange man, a woman’s mind will immediately have the following three questions:

Who is this?
What does he want?
When will he leave? If the answers that she comes up with are: some random creepy guy who has been hovering around me for the last thirty minutes, who desires my approval and attention while providing nothing in return, and does not look like he will be leaving soon; then the interaction may be dead on arrival. However, if she comes up with the answers: a super social guy who I have seen talking with everyone, who just wants to include me in his fun, and is not trying to trap me into a conversation; then the interaction will be off to a good start. It is completely unreasonable to expect a woman to entertain a complete stranger when she only senses that he wants something from her; such as her time, attention, approval or sex."

[Fundamentals of Female Dynamics] (https://www.amazon.com/Fundamentals-Female-Dynamics-Practical-Attracting/dp/0692655166/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8)

[–]Overnight_Delivery 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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