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[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it's a date, yeah on first meeting you should hug them, maybe give them a cheek kiss.
Slide your hands down to her midsection, just above her ass. Say your pleasantries with your hands still around her hips.
[–]Questionnaire7 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Ive lately been rejecting hand shakes from girls and hugging them. Ive noticed immediate interest from the begining doing this. A few times when meeting a new girl they come on strong and begin touching me throughout the interaction.
In fact this summer I did this with a girl I had met 2 times before in our group very breifly. She said "that was sweet" and changed her plans to come downtown with us. On the car ride out she stated "if anyone asks Questionaire7 is my date." So I said "well then sheesh at least act like it." And put an arm around her. She spoke in agreement and felt my thigh some, then a few min later commented how long it had been since she shaved. At that moment I knew sex was on her mind. After passing one or two more tests I was fucking her in the bathroom at our buddies house within 45 minutes.
Do not shake girls hands unless you want to be friends. Program their idea of you from the start.
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[–]Questionnaire7 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
No. When you arrive. Set the tone for the interaction. If you hug when you leave you do not get to cash in on this easy sexual tension and you run a bigger risk of being friends, UNLESS you do a stellar job flirting while there.
Use this to set the tone at the start.
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[–]Questionnaire7 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hugging with backpacks on is a bit physcially off. 1st time you see her without one go for it. Slide your hands from the middle of her back to her lower back BUT NO FARTHER. If she says anything about it point out the backpack thing but dont plan on leaning on that as am excuse.
You are over thinking it imo
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[–]Questionnaire7 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well grabbing her butt the 1st time you hug her is too sexual
[–]3hreeringz 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How did you respond to the shave comment, out of curiosity...
[–]Questionnaire7 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I said nothing
[–]canon12 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't you think you should hug a girl once she does something that deserves a hug or as an expression of how much you like her? Otherwise it would be fake wouldn't it?
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[–]canon12 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would perceive that as being selfish and self serving. If it makes her feel good it can't be bad.
[–]TheLimitlessMale 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is defiantly not too much touching
[–]ls737100 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, go for the hug dude. Ever woman I've ever met off any ap, ive hugged, never had one of them show a negative reaction.
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