| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Friend act different around womenSounds like energy not even worth having around if I have to play those games | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Advice for shorter menI’m 5”5 and have no problem. Confidence is everything | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 06:19 AM |
| 3 | How are you guys coping with not meeting new girls?Slick sounds nerve wracking | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Starting to think about exclusivity. How do I handle this?It all depends on what you want but in your last paragraph it already seems you know what to do. Just continue to chill and have fun. When she brings it up again then you can talk about it and let her know your intentions. | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | M35, First date in 3 years with a 20F from Tinder. Tips?Wouldn’t advise talking about yourself. You want to remain a mystery. Should have the girl do 80% of the talking | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Trying to pass the storm of shit-tests of a girl I want to be intimate withThose don’t seem like shit test, don’t think you’re reading the situation/relationship accurately | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Second Date IdeasThe vibe was very good, I was confident and centered and she's very laid back and cool. Conversation flowed easy and we had a lot in common and similar tastes. My place isnt suitable to ask her to come over thats why I wanted to push to go to hers. Hmm...I was thinking about to asking her to walk around & shoot since that's something I'd be interested in and she's a little into photography then afterwards ask to see her vinyl collection and whatnot. Hmm... | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Second Date Ideasyes, i would love to. would it be "risky" to ask to pull up to her spot? | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Weird feelings after hangoutThank you, ok now I don’t feel so bad. Now that I underrstand it a little more I can get over it more easily. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Weird feelings after hangoutin the future, how do i stop myself from feeling like this, because it really isnt plausible tbh | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I define my boundaries and not just be a SUPER nice and accommodating guy? How do I change myself?So when someone asks you a question, should you not answer it with the best of your ability for the sake of “mystery”? | /r/seduction | 15/01/19 06:15 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed?Ended up texting her and she said she didn’t feel a vibe. That makes me feel a lot better. On to the next one then. I wonder, what does create a vibe? Sexual tension? Conversation flow? | /r/seduction | 15/01/19 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Should I have went for a kiss?Damn, I need to ingrain in my mind girls want to have sex just as much too. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?What’s your approach now? | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | How exactly should I go about getting laid in college?You would say it’s good to go on coffee dates? | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 03:18 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what's wrong with me, but I can't seem to create tension necessary for closing.Thanks man. Damn, I need to get my own place 😩 | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what's wrong with me, but I can't seem to create tension necessary for closing.What’s some good first date ideas for a tinder chick | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | I casually suggested going out for an ice cream and she laughs about it?It’s just social media. She was prob just trying to get a follow since she liked your most recents and not 3 un-assorted pics she liked. | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more talkative?What are some ways to implement man to woman tone? | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Quick Questions on overdoing social proofActing smart isn’t social proof | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 11:48 PM |
| 2 | How To Fix The Biggest Thing Holding You Back - Your BlindspotsTLDW? | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 11:45 PM |
| 9 | I'm pretty yet I still can't get a boyfriend.Stop looking for love and have fun | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 07:26 AM |
| 2 | How's your love life atm?Not much of a risk | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | The role of looks in gameFacts. Having discipline, being conscious about your habits, strengths and weakness and being aware, you can always change yourself to who you want to be or at least work on becoming a better you. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 01:16 AM |
| 2 | I have been approaching more and I want to know What am I doing wrong in approaching? My failures are affecting my confidence and my academics. How can I help myself?Everyone’s journey is different. Doesn’t make you better than him. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Hugging a girlHow did you respond to the shave comment, out of curiosity... | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Photography GameI would love to do this. Was thinking about starting a photography series/project about portraits and just take pics of beautiful women I see. It'd fun and interesting for me and could open connects. Anyway I can see your work OP? | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 05:06 AM |
| 2 | So many girls at my work PT.2 (Updates)Facts | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | How to let girl know I'm into it?It's alright, next time a question like that occurs you'll be prepared. Its ok if you didn't react "normal". Just keep going and be yourself. You'll be more confident in social situations and react better. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Help to date on Snapchat.This | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Just go out and do it is the solutionWhy can't you? That mindset will get you nowhere | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 04:13 PM |
| 11 | Top 2 Ways to Overcome The Nice Guy SyndromeWhat's the problem? Men are humans with emotions too | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 04:10 PM |
| 16 | 20 Things to Talk About on Dates With Girlslol | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 09:58 PM |
| 2 | {20/M} Self improvement/help advice has given me minimal success. Need advice on how to keep it together.You can still go after women and not be needy. Be honest with yourself & your desires and if she doesn't reciprocate, move on to the next one. That's attractive.. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | {20/M} Self improvement/help advice has given me minimal success. Need advice on how to keep it together.Haha I know exactly what you mean. Having the mindset that you just genuinely want to try to get to know her and see what she's like will put you in a outcome independent frame. If you're attracted to her, have fun talking to her and show interest with kino & etc. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 06:38 PM |
| 7 | First time approaching a girl in 5 years - Nerdy Introvert Infield - First recording everDope man. Makes approaching seem easy and fun | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | This is why girls don't make sense to you. You're listening wrong. (Repost)Real | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | One Woman Doesn’t Determine Your Success In Dating.yeah you right | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 11:33 PM |
| 1 | One Woman Doesn’t Determine Your Success In Dating.quality>quantity | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [34M] When the girl you are just dating sees a notification from another woman (or women)...Yeah but honestly it prob a big enough deal to actually go into detail of who she is. It's easier and better if you just say it's a friend | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 07:41 AM |
| 2 | How to talk to short girls over text- turn conversation sexual?This all sounds cringe. Don't try too hard and be yourself | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 07:08 AM |
| 2 | what makes girls lose interest after making great first impressions?Clock is ticking till they run out of interest. If you keep hanging out and don't escalate or make a move you'll be sent in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 08:22 PM |
| -1 | Basic rules of lifes (that applies to seduction)Nah, deadass. If you're going to give advice, it should at least be pleasant to read. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you meditate? If so, how has it impacted your game?What cons is there to meditation? What cons is there to kaio-ken? | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Having success with this Tinder strategyexposed. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed with FWBI don't know what that is. | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed with FWBWe've already had sex a couple of times. I wouldnt mind keeping the friendship with the sex but I don't mind not having it either because I genuinely like her company. So I should keep chilling with her and just go with the flow? I want to avoid hurting her so I'm not sure how I should proceed because it looks like she's feeling me and I don't want a relationship. I plan on cutting it to seeing her once or twice a week. We always refer to each other as friends but I want to make sure we're on th… | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Didn't make a MoveEnded up chilling at her dorm again today and smashed. Finally lost my virginity after 22 years lol. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I flirt as a shy guy?What are some of these things ? | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Didn't make a MoveHey, thanks for the response, it's much appreciated. I'm going to ask her out this weekend. Quick question, I'm inexperienced so idk how to really gauge my desire but could it be that I'm not sexually attracted to her? Cause I'm lowkey not. Shes slightly bigger than me and taller But she's a cute girl. Or maybe there wasn't any touch prior to build that up. That tension, that tension that would make me just wanna act off instinct. I feel that's whats missing with her. Any way you can answer this… | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Didn't make a Moveso on this next date i should try to get sexual with her or wait till the next netflix and chill time? also any ideas on some cool dates i can do ? | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Didn't make a MoveI should wait a day or 2 before hitting her up huh? | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Didn't make a MoveMacy's | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Reacting to Needy CommentsYeah, I'm just not getting out there. So it's a learning experience for me. Yeah, based off her text I'm realizing she just wants attention and I'm finna just play it cool and chill on her. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Reacting to Needy Commentseh, not sure if thats what im looking for. def want to smash but not really trying to have someone 2nds, especially in the same work environment | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Reacting to Needy CommentsOK. Thanks for this, I have nothing to stress about. Just going to keep doing me and have confidence in my personality and presence. Hope dude doesnt smash, but when I see her, I'll have better responses and have fun with her. | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Reacting to Needy CommentsShe actually going out with another co-worker tomorrow. They were supposed to chill yesterday but didn't happen. The co worker she's going to chill with I'm kinda cool W/, were kinda cool and he moves fast. I'm not tight or anything but should I just say fuck this girl and move on to the next? | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Reacting to Needy CommentsYoure right. I just texted her to chill tomorrow, waiting for a response but in those situation, with comments like that, how do I react? Should i succumb to it, like let her know I want it or keep frame in a way? | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Reacting to Needy CommentsAhh, didn't know it was like that. I got her number today, I want to take her out tomorrow but I'm thinking. Shea 19 can't take her to a bar or anything. Homie told me I should just ask her to get something to eat | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Better ConversationI feel like I'm more into nerdy things and these girls cant relate. They don't really watch series, movies or listen to the music I do. But when I do find something I can relate with someone, usually a guy, I can talk for days and just have a fun conversation ranging from a lot of topics. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Girl Called Me Annoyingyou're right. thanks for putting things in perspective. will just use this as fun and practice. | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl Called Me AnnoyingIsn't teasing and banter all go into flirting ? I wasn't specifically talking about the yes boss as the moment if flirts but the whole night in general. There was some light kino and the vibes in general. Really fun talking and messing with each other? Is that not flirting ? | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Girl Called Me AnnoyingDon't shit where you eat Even if its not a so serious job? I work at JC Penney | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Seduction As a Reserved PersonThanks a lot for this, I sent you a PM. | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Froze Up Around Interest (Need Answers)!Thanks for the advice, you're right. I will do so. I'm just going to hit her up down the line, maybe in a couple of weeks when I feel more practiced and confident in my abilities. I think she'd still be down to hang later on as well and i'll have more experience on my hands to know what I'm doing. | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Froze Up Around Interest (Need Answers)!After thinking about it a few hours later I've come to conclusion that I was pissed because I feel I was too passive and not polarizing enough. The reason for this is because I might've felt pressure on me to act a certain way because of our situation and the vibes were kind of dead. More likely the former. So now moving on, you're right. None of that matters, it's either I pursue now and go further or just let it be. Honestly I feel our situation is kinda forced, shes my sister's friend, she ga… | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Relationship w/ Girl at WorkI want to be a person that's fun to be around and flirt and joke with girls. I'm really funny and quirk when I'm by myself and with people im close to but I can never bring that out in social settings. | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Texting an InterestThis is how it went. Was I too overbearing at the end or was it cool ? Once I asked her out, it felt like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. It was like I knew regardless of her answer that I'll be fine and stay true to myself and that felt good. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Texting an InterestThanks for this assurance. I really didn't do anything today except read and sleep all day so I don't know how to respond to that. I'm really stuck on how to transition from how are you type stuff to trying to get to know her without it seeming so forced. I'm really inexperienced and never done this type of stuff, so what do you recommend I plan for the first date? Everyone says, bowling, ice cream, go out for drinks (shes 20), etc. IDK, I can't see me giving a good time doing these things and b… | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | How to start covo with girl?I'm lowkey stuck on what to talk about and start a good convo. I'll say wassup or hey and I know it'll lead to like dry convo. Can you help me out, how do i transition to a good convo after hey | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Need texting AdviceDamn, I guess I'm going to really have to try this, it's always so scary me thinking about the chance of me fuckin up or her might not liking the real me but im going to keep trying to improve. Whats a good next text after her hey? | /r/seduction | 30/07/16 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Friend coming over. Netflix and chill?Awesome post | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 08:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I have fun conversations?I'm more of a ask questions type of guy since talking a lot isnt really my forte unless its something im passionate about. It's also a lot easier for me to hold convos if I let the other person talk and I do the listening. With that being said, can you help answer the OP again with this new information? | /r/seduction | 08/04/16 07:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I was scared shitlessKinda cringe, but congrats ? | /r/seduction | 10/03/16 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Deep insecurities about being a virginDamn, I'm bout to be 22 and still am one | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactionsgreat post, title should be affect btw | /r/seduction | 26/01/16 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Social anxiety caused me to fuck up. BAD.Is this for all situations? Because I had a girl I was interested in chillin in my room and all we talked about was life and music. Now that I'm thinking of it, should I have went for a kiss? I only knew her for 1 day and she had a boyfriend but she was feelin me and was all over me later that night | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Brand New Experience + OneitisI keep looking at this picture we took with each other and checking her social media. This feeling is so annoying... | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 05:06 AM |
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