How do I have more fun conversations? I've always played it safe so I never had many opportunities to talk to girls but when I do, I'm always just asking questions that helps me get to know them better. I feel like thats good, because I AM genuinely trying to get to know them but I think in order to pull or seduce for that matter, I need to have more fun and engaging conversations.

I guess what I'm missing is the flirting factor, banter and adding kino. How do I add these into my game? I want to be able to flirt and have fun talking to a girl WHILE getting to know them. When I talk to girls, I usually ask questions that gives me an idea of who they are and their motives.