I made a few post about this girl I was texting which can be seen here. So basically shes my sisters friend and we texted each other a couple of times and tried to make something happen. We havent texted in a couple of days because I decided to just cool it and let it kinda go. Today, my sister picked me up from work along with her. Basically, I'm mad at myself because I didn't really say anything to her and was really laid back during the car rides and the brief moment we stayed at my house. I usually am a quiet person but recently I've been opening up more due to my new job at retail.

I don't if I was quiet because I was nervous, if there was pressure to on me since we had a previous conversation, maybe the attraction was killed cause of text or I'm not able to act the way I want because I had my sisters around me. Usually when I'm at work I'd be able to muster up something. When we were at my crib, I was trying to think of what I could say but nothing came up. There was no zing this time around. Maybe, cause last time I seen her I was on a nofap streak but I don't want to put that on the pedestal...

So I guess my reasoning for this thread is to ask, should I text her something? Or just let it be? Why did I "freeze" up so much? Any clarity someone can offer me? I just wish I could act upon that attraction she had for me and be cool, engaging and flirtatious. I guess that comes with more practice...Should I send her a text of any kind to clear things up ?