[BQ] I have been reading and trying things for a couple of years now. I have been studying the sidebar, also the tinder cheat sheet. I work out regularly, have hobbies, some of them are even social ones, I meditate irregularly (but still on more days than I don't), I keep a positive mindset and try to challenge myself regularly.

On the dating apps I even chose good pics to present myself, how I interact with friends, and girls (so I don't come off as a creep who never has friendly interactions with women), I keep an honest interest in people and try to converse with as many as I can. This may sound like I'm doing a full time job, but it's actually just about 60 minutes spread throughout the day.

I got girls flaking me, ghosting me, some explicitly not wanting to date (on tinder), one girl telling me I looked too handsome so she felt too insecure (gotta admit, that was a little flattering, 😁 but stupid at the same time) or them finding other excuses.

I just don't really know how to make it on these apps anymore. I think what bothers me the most is that all my friends can make it on tinder, lovoo, okcupid and all but I can't for the hell of it.