Hey seddit, I'm in a situation and I'd really appreciate some advice.

The only person I know in my county is a girl who at one point was 'falling for me' as she put it, but now has a boyfriend due to my general AFC behaviour. I'm seeing her on Wednesday because she owes me some money, but we haven't really seen each other since June.

Since then I've discovered seddit and the PUA community. I'm particularly interested in David Wygant and Vin DiCarlo's material, with the aim being self improvement as a means to increased success with women, and I want to take this opportunity to improve my relationship with her.

I'm pretty sure her relationship won't last long - she's seeing the type of guy she normally goes for who treats her like shit, and I want to keep my options open with her while I pursue other targets and get on my feet socially. I'm recovering from depression and my few friends are on the other side of the UK, I feel like she's my only outlet into society.

I've got a lot going for me - she finds me attractive and funny, and I'm quite intelligent and cultured compared to most of her friends because she lives in the ghetto. I'm just too shy and inexperienced and I bottled it before when I had the chance to make her mine.

I could really use some wise words and encouragement from the seddit community. I'll post a FR for what it's worth after I've seen her.