I don't know how to progress from here

recyclablebanthas · 2017-09-25T14:57:31+00:00

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I feel like I have done everything this sub recommends and I still have limited success with women.

Seems like everyone who says this is leaving something out that they don't want to admit.

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I have a pretty good social life have lots of hobbies like rock climbing, skiing and acroyoga. I have a great job and for the most part I make friends really easily and I have a lot of female friends. In fact the last girl I dated ( a year and half ago) told me I have an abnormal number of attractive female friends.

Couple of things:

Why have you not invited out any other girls in a year and a half?
Forget what your exe said. It's pretty much irrelevant. What she said just means that she was insecure about you having those female friends. She might have even been afraid that you had a history with some of them. Or afraid that one of them might tempt you or whatever.

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I carry myself with confidence 90% of the time but I just can't seem to carry it over to girls I'm interested in.

Then you're not doing everything this sub recommends. Inner game is a pretty big deal. You ought to have read up on this in the Sidebar if you really had "done everything." So you're avoiding the issue.

Do you have 2-3 minutes? You do. Watch this video. It's less than 3 minutes and it covers two ways to combat negative thoughts that are holding you back from going for girls you are interested in.

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....none of the people there believed me when I said I had nothing going on and wasn't good with girls.

This should tell you something. You are convincing everyone else with your demeanor and body language. So if you simply invited a girl out and made moves, it would be congruent with the way you already project yourself.

mydogfartzwithz · 2017-09-25T19:11:34+00:00

Plain and simple OP you dont know how to make a girl "feel" Give her a rush, not to the point of being manipulative. Play some games, spin her around, speak french then shrug it off and walk away. Be more of a man to them, right now they see a friend boy

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-26T02:20:54+00:00

You sound like you're the fun but harmless asexual male that girls all like but never "like". You need to exude more masculinity and confidence, and not be that funny dancing monkey girls like but won't ever actually date.

theRJMurray · 2017-09-25T14:55:23+00:00

Sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy. RSD Jeffy said it best, "Do you get a boner when you're talking to an attractive girl?"

The girl is supposed to know you're directly interested, you're not supposed to dance around the fact.

NTSpike · 2017-09-25T22:45:36+00:00

Do you approach? How many new leads are you bringing into your life on a weekly basis? You mention developing in EVERY area besides the one area that matters; approaching women with a dating intent. If you aren't putting in the work in this specific area your dating life will never improve. A lot of guys fall into this category.

You can't score if you never take shots.

SocietalEngineering · 2017-09-25T19:06:41+00:00

The. Red. Pill.

You are so close.

Title	I don't know how to progress from here
Author	seekingquestions210
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	September 25, 2017 7:14 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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