I got rejected two times today 😄

TheSack1 · 2021-06-14T20:10:48+00:00

Look at it as you were looking for a geode in a pile of stones. You KNOW theres at least one in the pile. Its a daunting task but just crack open each stone until you find one! Discard all others as soon as you see it isnt your geode. No pressure just possibly a lot of work.

ramenandcoffee · 2021-06-14T21:52:44+00:00

Depends on how you went about it tbh. Mostly women won't appreciate a dude coming on too strong sexually when they have just met him (it is what I have largely seen with me and my gal pals and other women on social media) unless they are specifically looking for a hookup so if you are looking to "polarise" women that way you will likely have even less luck. In regards to sex there is DEFINITELY such a thing as being too direct too soon. You as a man might like to be approached like this but women are entirely different creatures.

Maybe opt for a slow(er) burn as an experiment and see where that gets you.

GracieFairmont86 · 2021-06-15T02:37:26+00:00

Ok ok, you did what most guys cant figure out, you picked up on some vibes or some indicators of interest before you made a move and you made the move. This was correct. You also seemed to have handled the rejection like a man, moving on unphased.

Next time try saying something that reverses the frame so you enable her to make a move on you. Women want what they cant have, so be a little hard to get, and dont give attention for free by being too direct.

This can be done by talking like you are the prize! Say stuff like "I sooo caught you looking, if you were thinking about seducing me then effort matters!😉🤣

Make yourself laugh and she probably will as well.

For something a bit more decent/appropriate: "Was i picking up some sort of vibe here? If you were thinking about hitting on me, I'd appreciate a drink first!😉"

What I'm trying to say is talk in a way that calls them out on their motives based on their open signals or indicators of interest, basically accuse her of trying to pick you up. This is like redirecting the validation onto yourself so u ain't flipping off the attraction switch in her head.

rickandmortyoddquest · 2021-06-15T03:06:49+00:00

Keep asking out girls, eventually one will be into you.

PackGod_5 · 2021-06-14T23:36:31+00:00

Ima be honest, immediate polarization isn’t always the way to go. Women might be attracted to confidence but they don’t live in a vacuum. A number of things could be going on in their heads and in their lives at the very moment in which you approach them that can make them reject you even if they’re attracted to you and your confidence. Imprint and a way to get in touch are much more important than being polarizing or too forward. The key is to leave an imprint in her, so that she’ll think about you after you leave. Also, to give her or get her number, social media, or any way to communicate in the future. If you can accomplish those two things and she’s attracted to you, she’ll reach out to you or take your reach out to her later much better, when she’s thinking of being next to someone (like all humans do).

No-Guide7040 · 2021-06-15T17:21:04+00:00

Kind of sounds like you're playing the numbers game. If you ask enough of them eventually a percentage will say yes. 🍻 Though that may sound weird I sincerely applaud your effort. You will never succeed if you don't participate.

Title	I got rejected two times today 😄
Author	GoldenEagle71
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	June 14, 2021 7:54 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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