I had another melt down

frenris · 2014-04-01T06:05:49+00:00

It isn't easy for 95% of people but we manage.

You sound like you need to work on yourself for a bit.

deefunkt420 · 2014-04-01T08:21:02+00:00

I smell a depressive cycle. Break outta that shit and go to the gym. If you're not handicapped you can get girls, n theres even that one paraplegic guy who got bjs. Hate pickup if u want, but do not stop talking to women. If u arent getting any signals shes into you, then stop caring and make friends with her. Go out with her, maybe she will intoduce u to her friends by saying youre a cool dude. All this forever alone bullshit is the reason why you're too invested in if a chick likes u. Stop caring and try to have fun

Perfectz · 2014-04-02T14:28:10+00:00

Sorry this is going to be long, but two points to consider.

Point 1: If you don't believe in the product your selling, why would anyone else buy it. How can you devout yourself to something you don't believe in.

My first week of infield, after 2 months of studying material. I found myself learning to talk to people but not really pushing myself over the edge. I got rejected over 40 times in one week. So I decided I needed to do something, anything different.

So the next weekend I worked as a seller at a booth at a steampunk convention and I tried to use pick up to sell products. I killed it at a convention where the other vendors just constantly told me everyone was unsellable, I sold mostly to women too, and had a small crowd around me. The owner of the booth was a friend of mine and said to me.

"That's your problem talking to women, you believe in my product so you can sell it, If you felt the same way about yourself you would destroy at the clubs and on the street too."

This changed my whole outlook on life, and I noticed once I showed faith in myself, and treated myself like I had value my life improved. that's not pick up that's just truth. So feel free to work on. If you can't see yourself as attractive now, either learn how to, or make the changes necessary to become valuable.

Point 2: Pick up should always be a hobby and part of your every day actions. Don't go out just to pick up women and you won't get burned out. Go to places like karaoke bars if you like to sing, triva nights if you're a know it all, rocking climbing if your a work out buff and take dancing lessons that you want to learn so that you can free yourself from outcome dependency. If your not enjoying yourself how can you expect some one else to expect you to be fun. Live the life you want to live and share it, that you can control. Instead of finding some one to love you enough to make life livable which relies on other people you can't control.

StupidWes · 2014-04-01T17:53:12+00:00

You're doing the wrong part of pickup if this is the case. Switch your focus entirely to inner game. Hit that, and hit it until it belongs to you. It helps with a lot more than pickup, it just plain makes life better.

drogean2 · 2014-04-02T15:55:13+00:00

pickup takes a long time dude. expect to suck for a year after starting.

find your local lair or meetup and go out EVERY weekend until 2AM

you will not get good reading shit online. Also you HAVE to get into shape, fitness matters wether you like it or not. If you're a fedora wearing neckbeard going to clubs you have to at least NOT act like it. also, drink

Title	I had another melt down
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Upvotes	2
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Date	April 1, 2014 4:57 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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