I must be autistic or something. I responded to this shit test in the worst way possible... What was i supposed to do?

Woujo · 2017-06-28T09:09:12+00:00

So I texted this girl a simple "hi"

Don't ever do that again. It's boring and it doesn't stand out. Only text girls fun and funny things. Or ask them out. Don't become text buddies with girls.

The sends a laughing emojii asking "why are you texting me"

Legitimate question. I have the same question.

my real intention was NOT to bang, i just was super bored.

Find other shit to do with your time than text girls nonsense.

So I told "because im bored". She texts back "well im not a time pass".

LOL she destroyed you.

She's right. Why should she be your amusement? If some girl told me she texted me cuz she was bored, I would tell her to fuck right off. I want people to talk to me because they like me, not because they are bored. What you said was insulting to her, and she reacted appropriately.

i then told her that it was a poor excuse. she read my msg and didn't text back...

A poor excuse for what?

Why did you feel like she had some obligation to text you? What value are you providing? She probably has better shit to do.

No offense, but this is what you did: texted her something boring, told her that your life sucks and you have nothing cool going on, told her that she's nothing but a dumb idiot whose only purpose in life is to amuse you and make your boring life better, and then got mad when she said she didn't want to do that.

It wasn't a "shit test." This girl probably had no interest in you whatsoever, and whatever interest she had died after you told her you texted her because you were "bored."

marthdotsk · 2017-06-28T13:16:00+00:00

That wasn't a shit test... that was a clear indicator of disinterest. Crystal clear, even.

Shit tests come from a place of interest. Texting a smiley is not an IOI.

Please read about shit tests on the sidebar.

Xanarxses · 2017-06-28T13:12:59+00:00

Are you autistic?

hi

Way to set yourself apart from the crowd.

because im bored

Ok now we're cooking. Tell her she's just some little entertainment and a way to kill time. Winning a lot of points here OP.

Anyway you shit the bed with that one.

If that's the best conversation you could come up with, you should've just not done anything and found something to do that wasn't that.

Title	I must be autistic or something. I responded to this shit test in the worst way possible... What was i supposed to do?
Author	helpme37
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	June 28, 2017 9:02 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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