I need help

DaygameCode · 2025-02-12T13:40:51+00:00

Not with that mentality. But yes, there are short men that have managed to get laid, and get married and have kids.

If your mentality is “please let me prove my worth to you”, or “let me compensate so that you give me a chance”, then no, you won’t have success with women.

And no, women aren’t thinking you must have a small penis because you are short. Women just prefer tall men for reasons of safety, and contrast between masculinity and femininity.

Women feel more “girly” or feminine” if the guy is taller than them, and guys usually feel more masculine or manly if the girl is shorter than them.

The tall guy doesn’t necessarily have a huge penis or anything worth bragging about and women will still prefer them over shorter guys more often than not even if the short guy has a bigger dick.

What you need to understand is that women can also be attracted emotionally, so while they may have a preference it doesn’t mean they shut the door completely to those who don’t match that preference.

But if your idea of talking to girls is:

“Let me impress you”, “let me prove my worth to you”, “let me make merits”, “i have to get them to like me” i have to prove to them what a great boyfriend or lover i would be, so they give me a chance”, “I wanna make them see how happy i would make her if she open her eyes”…

Then the problem here is you simply don’t have a good frame and don’t know how to talk to girls. You are not acting like their equal, you are begging for validation from them, you are putting yourself as beneath them, and not making them feel any emotions at all.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-02-12T13:40:35+00:00

Yes there are women who will fuck short men at 5'4. But most won't. Why should they fuck you? What valuable qualities do you have?

I'm not talking about your dick size: women don't make a decision to sleep with you because they believe you have a small or big dick. That idea is dumb as fuck. Stop thinking with your dick, and begin thinking with your head!!!

Learn what women care about. Most of them don't care that you have a big dick!! So you need to educate yourself. Most women care the most about an emotional connection. How you make her feel and what kind of social status and confidence and looks you got (not dick size)

Also look at your game. What is the way that you're hitting on them? Most women don't want to fuck most men - period. There must be a compelling reason (usually an emotional reason, not a logical reason)

huntsman1123 · 2025-02-13T08:18:20+00:00

I've actually seen a study that said that short men actually get laid more than taller men, believe it or not.

Also, biologically, it's more attractive to women to see short men, or men who some might say have a biological disadvantage, still be confident and thriving, it actually adds and EXTRA LAYER of attractiveness. For example, say a tall dude, who's confident, its like, we'll they're supposed to be, but a shorter guy being confident is actually EXTRA ATTRCTIVE TO WOMEN, because it shows, even with being short, you're still thriving, you must be EXTRA COOL. You can actually use this to your advantage.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-02-12T22:01:18+00:00

Hahaha that was funny .

Your issue isn't that they think you have a small package, it's rather an issue with dominance . As a short guy projecting dominance is VITAL.Height is just one manifestation of dominance . How do you usually approach these women? Where? And how do you usually dress? Also feel free to DM me, I love talking about this stuff but there are so many threads to follow!!

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-02-12T13:27:39+00:00

A better approach is to find some way to indirectly brag about your sexual performance by maybe complaining about a woman who was too into having sex with you. It is tricky to pull off. And yes short guys date too its just a lot harder and you will get less attractive women.

Title	I need help
Author	irishman-76X
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	February 12, 2025 1:24 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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