I need an advice from you.
Let me tell you where I am currently with my progress. Few weeks ago I started working on myself. I have been taking this progressively - each day I do a task that puts me a little bit out of my comfort zone. It works really fucking amazing, my confidence is building up pretty nicely. Here's how it went down:
- Find 60 people that have a red piece of clothing on them. (To build curiosity*)
- Find 60 girls that I'm attracted to and see them as CUTE, no matter how "HOT" or "SEXY" they are. (It made a HUUUGE change with my perspective on women.)
- Find 60 blond girls that I'm attracted to and see them as cute. (See how I'm combining exercises? In my experience it makes a change more permanent.)
- Ask 30 girls that I'm attracted to for time.
- Ask 30 girls that I'm attracted to for directions to some club, bank, post office, whatever...
- Give a compliment to 30 girls that I'm attracted to.
- Ask 30 girls that I'm attracted to for time or directions to some club, bank, post office, whatever... and then give them a compliment.
- Ask 30 girls that I'm attracted to for their phone number.
I'm stuck at task eight. I feel like it's too large of a step for me and I find myself not being able to do it.
Here's where I need your help: I need some ideas for tasks that I'd put between task 7. and task 8. to make it a smoother transition.
Also, if you have any other tip, I don't mind. ;)
*Curiosity is something everybody should build. It's a package of 3 really awesome skills: Focus, Will (motivation) and Extrovertion. The best part is it's soooo easy, because these three support each other.
EDIT: Thanks for feedback guys. I decided I'm going to start all over from step 1. I'll modify the program a bit, and I hope for even better results this time.
For everyone who is still stuck, I suggest you to do what I laid out here, it's literally the best way to build confidence, in my opinion. If we get even more people doing this, we could build a really awesome program for confidence building that would transform people from zero to hero in just a few months. What do you think?
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