I seriously need some advice on an controversial topic

imseanpatrick · 2012-07-06T11:00:13+00:00

Half Italian half Hispanic ain't black man. It's called mixed race, hybrid vigor, you know?

bmduffy · 2012-07-06T09:09:56+00:00

Another Jersey boy here:

I consider myself a good looking Caucasian man. No problem with women in Jersey and even into NYC. But when i went to school out in Indiana, i definitely needed to change my game up.

I don't think race has anything to do with it.

You can attest to the idea that east coasters have a certain attitude about them. Cocky, know what they want, all that good stuff. For some reason, that only works on the east coast for a majority of the time. You may not realize it, but you may be projecting this attitude in your sets and scarring the women off almost.

My solution was to get a wingman and guide me through conversations mid set. After a few times, i was able to adjust the way i was speaking and the problem was solved.

Try it. It will get better no worries.

Janet_Weiss · 2012-07-06T08:43:12+00:00

It sounds like you are just trying to get laid as quickly and/or often as possible. If that is the case, you just need to go where the women are sluttier and treat them slightly less like a piece of meat than all the other guys there.

If not, you have a bit more work ahead of you. (step #1: humility)

Coming from a white girl (from Georgia) dating a black guy.

n0c0ntr0l · 2012-07-06T08:04:16+00:00

Right, so I'm a black kid who only chases white women. (It's just the way I swing, not attracted to other races unless they are exceptionally hot).

If a girl is going to reject you based on your skincolour alone I wouldn't worry about it. There are enough girls out there who like black guys.

But if you really want to try, I have to ask how are they blowing you out. Are you ejecting at the first sign of trouble? A bit of perseverance with some ball busting {attraction stage of the game} and moves into comfort can go a long way with a girl who initially tries to blow you out [if it's just a bitch shield]

Title	I seriously need some advice on an controversial topic
Author	Xman0142
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	July 6, 2012 7:57 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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