I suck at seducing/getting physical with girls

SydneykittyX · 2017-09-04T10:58:03+00:00

Honestly just be kinda force full like let it be known you wanna get physical through your physical

nave256 · 2017-09-04T11:35:23+00:00

while talking about sex , touch her hand if she like to have sex she will hold you tight , some times touches help

swagpresident1337 · 2017-09-04T13:26:39+00:00

You are doing great imo. Pretty good handling of the situation. You maybe could have done some more physical contact and touches etc. Often times you have to "force" it (not in a harmful or creepy way just trying it) Girls often do completely the opposite of what they are saying.

for example: I was at party and sometimes I just go up to a girl and straight up say to her that I find she looks beautiful and ask her if she wants to make out. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt. This time she said no but I kind of tried anyway and it worked out. Just dont do anything if she really does not want to otherwise its harassment :)

TheLimitlessMale · 2017-09-04T15:00:28+00:00

Sounds like a friend zone situation to me.

How long have you know this girl?

90% of the work is done before you even get into that position.

A girl should know you're sexually interested in her the first time you meet her. That's not to say you walk up to her and say I wanna fuck you. But your actions, words, movements should have an underlying hint of sex. So when you get into situations like above things will move a little smoother.

If she's alone in a car with you in a dark road it means she is at least debating doing something with you. As a man it's your job to escalate the situation. Having sex in a car logistically is tough. Especially if you're in the front seat (you have the steering wheel, shifter, and everything else in the way.)

Girls will often say "fuck no haha" in order to not come off as a slut who blows random dudes on dirt roads. Next time if you're in a situation like that you have to go for it. Look her in the eyes and say, "I have something to tell you, come closer" as she does go in for the kiss.

If she pulls away, just make a joke out of it. "Oh, the talk about car sex got me going". But most likely she'll go with it.

sharp_as_stars · 2017-09-04T20:10:00+00:00

Never SPEAK about sex directly. Joking is also risky. The only language that will get you laid is touch. [I guess everyone here knows that ;)] A subtle touch at i.e. outer side of a palm, tells her everything.

But that's technical.

Regarding your inner game: there has to be reason you are avoiding getting physical. There has to be something that you can get out of NOT getting physical with a girl. Do some digging. Get to the bottom of it. On matter what it is exposing it would be the first step to step up your game.

Goodluck.

peakpua · 2017-09-05T04:28:52+00:00

With the girl u should a tried for something small. Holding hands. Then go bigger arm around. Then making out. Then sex. Baby step the escalation. To practice- go to girls in bar. Talk to them with ur mouth in their ear. Put ur arm around them and escalate from there. Always de-escalate and continue talking when girl is uncomfortable and then re-escalate later. You'll get more comfortable the more you try to do it.

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Cevar7 · 2017-09-05T06:47:46+00:00

Try practicing your body language including touching. Having a partner would be great for you because she could help teach you. My first sexual partner taught me a whole lot from kissing to touching, etc.

Ackkracck · 2017-09-05T10:39:27+00:00

You guys are completely right man ! I have just been dealing with a bad girl recently that completely killed my whole game and vibe so i think that is potentially why i have been so hesitant to do things etc :P Next time i see this girl i will definitely make things more physical and just go for the escalation method ! :) Thanks for all the replies boys, means alot ! :)

lyftmore · 2017-09-04T22:26:22+00:00

When I'm with a girl for the first time there's always this moment where I say to myself "here it goes" and I put my arm around her/kiss her. There's no secret, there's no super sly smooth way, you just have to go for it.

Watching a movie at your place is a really good way to warm up to making a move. Within the first few minutes of the movie you should have your arm around her, then slowly start escalating from there.

Title	I suck at seducing/getting physical with girls
Author	Ackkracck
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	September 4, 2017 10:40 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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