I just feel like I needed to tell you guys this, I finally think I "got it." So this past weekend on friday a few friends of mine had planned on going to a themed fake wedding party (dumb, but whatever) so I got dressed up with a shirt and tie and sweater over top and looked real good. While we didn't end up going to that party I went to another one and struck up a conversation with more girls throughout the night (was told I looked really good) and ended up standing in line with one of them for the bathroom where she held the door open for me to come in and we made out 3 times in there (I had only kissed one other girl in my life) I was nervous but it just happened and I felt great. Later I was talking to another girl about how she was going out to a bar by my place monday and I straight up asked for her number and got it saying we should meet up.

Saturday was just as good as I went to a dance club with some friends and ended up having a girl all over me and we made out a few times then too. While I was a little drunk both times I finally had that confidence and it felt great, I don't really know what clicked, just hoping I can keep it going forward.

The only issue I do have is that girl whose number I got and I texted a little yesterday and we say each other in line for the dance club (she was way ahead of me and I couldn't find her in there with bad phone reception) and we said we would text today but she hasn't answered any of mine. I would still like to go out with her monday but I don't want to keep bothering her if she's not interested. I texted her 3 times, I'm worried she maybe saw me dancing with that other girl, idk. Also I wasn't able to bring that other girl home from the dance club after the bar closed. We made out as it was closing and she kind of walked off with her friend.

Any advice on both of those? And also I'm a little worried the confidence just came from alcohol, any tips on that? I did focus on touching the girls and seeing their reactions and I think that really helped.