Hey

So several months or even years ago (I'm 21) I had great game. I know I was confident, attractive, and despite being in a relationship (cuz we had on/off times) wheeling girls wasn't easy but it wasn't as hard as now. I don't know where the hell it went South, but I suspect it was from my break up like 1.5 years ago. That's a loong fucking time ago. We dated for 4 and so odd aggregate years and she broke up with me - haven't slept with a girl since.

This is all weird because I've got girl-friends, I'm a decent looking dude, I play sports, I'm a leader in school clubs, so like what the fuck. I don't have family issues, I don't have money issues. I do think that maybe I feel inadequate to my "younger" self, especially because I've gotten a tad fatter and my hair's starting to thin out. But still, I rock my thin hair with a pretty sick hair cut and I don't care that I've gotten some padding.

Should I meditate like hell for a few weeks like Don Draper and clear my head? I guess it's important to note my diet sucks, I don't really hit the gym either. Did I just find my own answer? Should I start hitting the gym first and if the issue persists, do something else about it?

Thanks in advance for your help my friends call me a virgin