I think I'm too beta, especially with women. I am told that I come off as too kind, too passive, and I have had a few girls lose interest in me for this. I need 100% confirmation that a girl likes me to make a move. It's like I need "I like you in a romantic way" or "I want to bang you" to be written down and sent to me via registered mail. As a result- I have been "friend zoned" a few times. Girls have also used these traits to take advantage of me and use me while being with other guys bc they know I won't do anything about it. I always get hurt in the process. I want some pointers on how to be more alpha.