Okay, so I am still stunned by this happening but the girl I've been talking to for 2 months officially led me and I found out in the most immature fashion. So I met this girl at the same place where I work ( I know it wasn't smart), and we started to hit it off. She was the one that initiated the conversation that we hang out outside of work. I was skeptical at first but then I was like what the hell why not. So we started to hang out outside of work, and I made the first move to show I was interested. So after that we started to hangout every Sunday for 2 months (only time we have our schedule match up to hang out)and we would see each other whenever we worked. Whenever we worked though we would find a way to get together and make out and such but nothing too over the top at work. So when we started to hangout on the weekends, and she would get mad whenever I tried to fit in time with friends and such if it was on Sunday ( she would be like " thats when we hang out and such" and try to guilt trip) but we would still have time to hang out. The big dilemma started Christmas time when she mentioned that she was giving me a gift for christmas. I didn't expect her to get me anything, because we didn't define the relationship yet so I was unaware of this. So I got her a gift kind of a patriots jersey because she wanted one, and I hesitated at first for buying it for her but I was like what the heck and got it. She also been over to my house a few times, and met my parents and what not she was fine with this. My parents asked if she was going to come over Christmas Day, and I was hesitant but she said yes ( the girl). Everything seemed to go well on Christmas, and such and got me gifts that I only told her I liked (which was odd). However, this is when things started to get off track. I heard from my friend jeremy that she was upset with me that we didn't hang out one weekend, because I busy, so I tried to make it up to her to make sure we hang out the weekend after ( I initiated everything). Then she doesn't really give me a time until the day off and then I told her I was hanging with my brother ( who I don't see that much because he has his own apartment) but I told her we would be able to hang out after. Then she doesn't respond at all.. So this week is when things happened. We didn't really talk that much this week, because I got a weird feeling ever since I found a condom wrapper in her car a few weeks back.. ( says its been in there for a while but I don't believe her) she seemed kind of distant and what not. Then later this week my friend Jeremy ( on Thursday) told me that she has a boyfriend, and wouldn't tell me. I just don't get if she wasn't interested in me like that why didn't she tell me? Why did she keep it a secret and what not. The fun fact of the day is that when it was Christmas , I asked her what she wanted to be called if people asked me who she was..then I said if I called her my girlfriend would it be okay and she said yes. It was just all out of the blue for me, and I don't get it really. So I confronted her at work , and asked her why she didn't tell me and wasn't giving me an answer at all? All she said to me was " you knew I was a bitch before this", and then she left to see her new boyfriend ( which they only knew each other for 4 days...) Background: I've been going to therapy for a year and a half and was just prescribed prozac 4 months back. I consider myself a commitment phobe because of past relationships (getting cheated on and such) so this was the first girl I actually tried to see where things go. Note: She was the first girl that Ive ever invited to meet the "family" Background on her: tends to be a partier goes to the bar on Thursday's and Fridays. She is adopted and has a bad relationship with her mother , and doesn't have a father figure (why I caved and asked her to go to my house for Christmas).

To make things worse, when we work together she is either 1) easily agitated by something I say or 2) just talk to other workers ( even tho she secretly hates the one she talks to). So yeah you can say my life is a wreck from this lol