Im 18 y.o and a virgin..

Stringdaddy27 · 2018-02-20T19:59:30+00:00

"I'm getting old"

"I'm 18"

Fuck you lol

Enntized · 2018-02-20T20:20:16+00:00

Stop playing Dota to start

iHasABaseball · 2018-02-20T19:51:29+00:00

Perhaps work on things that give you confidence. You're a virgin, because you lack confidence to approach women. It's quite a simple puzzle really.

In any case, I don't know why you've created this illusion in your head that every person loses their virginity before 18 or that your situation is so ungodly horrible. The fact of reality is that the average male loses his virginity at about age 17; females average slightly older. That's the AVERAGE, which means tons of people fall above and below that mark. Which means there's nothing abnormal about being a virgin at 18. When you come to grips with that and stop beating yourself up over a relatively insignificant event and FALSE worldview, things will get easier.

You've given yourself anxiety, because you've created a completely false narrative in your brain then used it as weaponry against your self-worth. Bad habit...kill it now.

If it bothers you that much when the topic comes up, just make up some bullshit stories. Go read some silly sex stories on reddit and adopt them. Who cares? At your age, like half the people around you ranting about their incredible sex stories are making it up or exaggerating too. Join them, then fake it til you make it.

It's an important "rite of passage," sure, but I can guarantee that your confidence isn't suddenly going to arise from having sex. You'll be on a temporary high when it happens and feel like superman for a week, but after that, if you haven't built any substance in your life that gives you internal confidence, you're still screwed. Stop looking outward for confidence. Get goals in other areas of your life.

Dark_Merchant · 2018-02-20T19:21:14+00:00

what about friends are your friends all guys making fun of you being 18 and virgin? usually guys just make fun of each other or try to help with problem like"lets go to club" get some ''Bitches". In my opinion friends have much to do with cases like that...

Supes_man · 2018-02-20T19:46:46+00:00

“I’m getting old.”

Dude 18 isn’t old. You have decades and decades of time for sex my friend, this isn’t a video game with achievements and unlocks. It’s not like once you have sex you unlock a new perk or something lol.

I waited till I was 23 cuz I wasn’t in a rush and honestly, fun as the act itself is, it doesn’t change anything else about your life. Don’t be in such a hurry dude and if your “friends” are giving you grief about it then they’re pretty immature and crappy friends.

Dark_Merchant · 2018-02-20T19:13:37+00:00

well... i think you are worried more about what people think about you being virgin than about the fact it self. If you see this situation that you are virgin as a problem it can be solved easily i think if you aren't seeking true love or somethin like that. But if you are looking for right person people should understand that but if it's only shyness that stops you, there must be done something with it..

Dark_Merchant · 2018-02-20T19:14:55+00:00

i would like to answer any further questions cause i can relate to this situation

Dark_Merchant · 2018-02-20T19:26:22+00:00

also being shy isn't excuse cause worst thing that can happen to you while talking to girl if she won't be interested in you and makes you feel awkward. But it's better to try isn't it you might get lucky or you will gain some exparience at least.

tony18215 · 2018-02-20T23:44:14+00:00

18 is young af....Im 24 and feel old af..I wish I was 18 haha,Its normal being a virgin at 18..you have time lol

SyrusDrake · 2018-02-21T05:11:36+00:00

I'm a decade older than you and still a kissless virgin. You have absolutely nothing to worry about yet.

Dark_Merchant · 2018-02-20T19:22:45+00:00

And if you are worried about your first time (ofc you are everybody is) you might try it with prostitute for first....if it seems ethical to you.

Dark_Merchant · 2018-02-20T19:40:27+00:00

in your situation you might feel more comfortable with hooker cause they have 18+ virgins all the time and you won't be embarrassed at all. And it's much faster than finding a girlfriend and getting to 3rd base... Also there should be big city nearby you (full of hookers).

Title	Im 18 y.o and a virgin..
Author	Arteezay
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	February 20, 2018 6:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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