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[–]Thejohncarter95 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Coming from someone who has the same gifts. Just try stuff in this sub most of the time it works with ease, girls want you to talk to them they get excited when guys like us make an approach. The worst that will happen is you don't get laid.
[–]Morokweng 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Notice what you're doing right now. You've found this subreddit, you surely can see all of the resources in the sidebar telling you where to get started, surely you know what you need to actually do... but yet you're here making this thread instead asking your inane question.
Making this thread is giving you a sense of accomplishment, while accomplishing absolutely nothing. You're procrastinating, putting off what you know you need to do, and what you need to do is go out and talk to girls. But you're scared and you feel resistance towards actually taking action... good, fear and resistance are the compass that point towards what you need to do. Everything you've ever wanted is on the far side of fear.
I'm not going to pat you on the back or give you your feeling of accomplishment or validation for posting this thread. Fuck you. You wasted your 20s by not taking action, how much more time are you going to waste pussyfooting around like this? You're going to fucking DIE one day dude, you could die TODAY, what the fuck are you doing?
Get some basic pickup theory, but don't become a theory nerd. It should be 90% going out and 10% theory. Go on Facebook, join the RSD inner circle group for your city, get a wingman, go out, talk to girls, get laid.
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[–]42656570426f6f 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you have those attributes, you don't have to win a girl. You just have to avoid losing her. Play it cool, follow some cheesy lines you read and you should have no problems at all.
This is of course terrible advice for normal looking dudes. lol.
[–]souljabri557 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wild streak
Nightclubs. Go out to clubs. Talk to girls at clubs. You can get laid multiple times a week with your looks and a little bit of game.
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas[M] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hello, this post is being removed for being too basic and already answered.
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[–]cockycomedy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't have "game" and you don't "get it" about attraction and seual communication and dating.
First you should read a book that will change everything you know about women, love, life, and dating. All 28 years of misinformation and false advice will have to be changed.
After that you can start gaining the skills needed one by one.
There are many books; "Attraction Code" by Vin DiCarlo, "Models" by Mark Manson, "The Mystery Method" by Mystery, "All About Women" by Giuseppe Notte, "Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo (or Attraction Isn't a Choice by the same author), Magic Bullets by Nick Savoy, probably 20 more.
They all teach the same thing so one is as good as the other. Approach it like learning the guitar. Did you start off by playing the solo from Testament's "First Strike is Deadly" ? Or did you start by trying to make sounds on the fretboard without the buss, get blisters on your fingertips, trying to read notes or tablature? In time you will be able to play 16th notes at 140bpm, get callouses on your fingertips, and guess the next note without having to look at the score.
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