I've done about 8 cold approaches now and I have gotten the number 7/8 times. I have also gone on a date with one of the eight and had a heavy make-out session but no sex and couldn't get her on second date. I am still not approaching enough ,these 8 approaches are over the past 4 months , with the last 7 being in the last 2 months. Im still not approaching enough though in my opinion. I just need to see and act and not get caught up in my head. I keep making excuses for why Im not going out and approaching, do you think having a wing would make me more bold or encourage me? How'd you guys start acting more ?? Im in college so I'm constantly seeing beautiful women. I mean Ive been having success but still somethings holding me back, I guess its the fear of rejection. When I ask a girl out and get rejected though I don't feel bad though, I actually feel amazing and emboldened.

Little background about dating life: Ive been dating since freshman year in high school and have had about 2 short terms girlfriends and hooked up with 3 girls and kissed 8 girls. I occasionally have girls ask me out and approach me but they are typically not what Im looking for. Im trying to take control of my dating life so thats why I started cold approaching.