Some backstory, I'm a guy who used to be really unattractive and I had no confidence whatsoever. I worked out for years and found a passion in bodybuilding, that improved my confidence and completely changed me. Now I'm kind of a hunk who's got a shit ton of confidence and self love. I'm in college right now and I'm still a virgin and I'm noticing a big problem in my game.

My seduction is always so on point, however when it comes to sexual escalation, I'm a pussy. Regardless of what my brain tells me, every time I have the opportunity to escalate I just can't do it. I'm always to scared or too uncomfortable. This has prevented me from getting with countless attractive women that have wanted to have sex with me, every time verbal or physical escalation is needed to progress, I just can't do it.

How do I overcome such a heavy mental barrier. I'm sick of coming home from parties empty handed because I was too scared to preform an action. What's worse is that I don't know where this fear came from? I can't tell if it's because I'm a virgin, or because I'm scared of rejection. I come off as a huge douche bag but in reality I'm just a nerd, and I'm proud of it. However, I'm still sick of the fact that I can't take advantage of all these girls that are all over me.

Has this ever happened to any of you? How did you overcome this?