I’m so frustrated

aepr88 · 2019-06-19T01:13:56+00:00

Lol, welcome to the texting game. This is the norm, and it sucks. Just do other things, homework, chores, hang out with friends, video games, reading. There are a million other things you can do beside obsessing over her texts.

IDoesThis1 · 2019-06-19T02:46:31+00:00

That’s good you waited two days to text her back. It makes it look like you have other shit going on even though you obviously don’t since you’re just sitting around waiting for her texts. She’s texting like a normal person with a life do How about you find something to do to pass time instead of waiting for her. Also when she does text you back at least wait a couple hours to continue to make it seem like you have a life and look like a high value male

folasanmi · 2019-06-19T03:20:56+00:00

Think about it, she’s a hot girl presumably so chances are she is talking to other guys, because hot girls usually have abundance of options and abundance of options makes them less needy, hence why she isn’t texting you back. Now their could be other reasons but that is the most likely reason.

So here are the tactics; don’t text her back faster than she texts you. If he takes an hour you take an hour if. She takes five minutes you can take minutes also or you could Waite longer. But the point is time, is her interest level.

Also stay away from interview questions like “what are you doing” or “how are you” unless you want to set up date. Other than. That keep things flirt and value offering. Always give value. Why? Because you are so abundant you just. Give all the time. ( at least that’s what you want her to think)

Z3ro_R3quiem · 2019-06-19T05:51:55+00:00

This best piece of advice for your situation, and any younger guys reading this, is DO NOT spam her with texts. Delayed, well thought out responses are better than rapid fire ones. And if you are trying to keep the conversation flowing, tailor your responses so she can have something to build off of. Like large words in scrabble.

onmitrix · 2019-06-19T06:07:57+00:00

waiting a long time before texting was a good choice mate, makes u look like u have shit to do. ure at the texting stage so, i suggest that you say "hey, this texting shit is rly boring, wanna go out for a movie or do smthing?" then if she says no, try to pull back and/or neg her for saying no, ans if yes congratulations, i hope this helps :)

BrownGuyKnowsNothing · 2019-06-19T06:20:38+00:00

Try to have lot of options, don't linger over one

Don't worry about rejection

Work on yourselves like building body, naturally confidence comes next

Whatever happens, be respectful to everyone

Smooth_Surfaces · 2019-06-19T00:27:19+00:00

She's texting like a normal person. You probably fucked up somewhere along the line and she's regretting the decision, which is why she's dreading setting up a text.

OR, the MUCH more likely scenario is that she has shit to do, people to see and people to do(lol). Texting back when you have time is completely normal. The fact that you know or care about the time it took for her to text back makes you the abnormal one. Chill the fuck out. Let her text back when she wants. If you have a date set in motion, there's no issue.

Title	I’m so frustrated
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Date	June 19, 2019 12:19 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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