I try to be optimistic with myself but with little success, it’s difficult. Physically, I’m proud of myself. I’ve built a routine and lifestyle that has lead to a toned physique that I’ve been building for 3+ years. However, since I never learned game with women, i keep building up these limiting thoughts.

Anytime I get rejected or given a fake number, I think, “I’m too ugly/skinny.” Being a 22 year old and never even getting beyond a make out, I believe I’m damaged. Sure, self-improvement has kept me busy and maybe helped me feel better but it only goes so far. I still don’t believe I can attract the girls that I want.