I don’t get on here much but I was surprised to see guys struggling with initiating sex with women after meeting them. I actually wrote my formula in the comments for a guy and I got curious what everyone here would think lol. Improve me, make me stronger 💪

Disclaimer, I will say I’ve never had this not work but obviously if the woman isn’t receptive don’t push it 😂

  1. ⁠Begin sitting relatively close to the woman, but not on the same couch. Make eye contact when she does for sure, keep an eye out for signs you’re making too much.

  2. ⁠After about 20-30 minutes of intense conversation (don’t be shallow it’s a half hour), get up and grab a refreshment, offering her one as well. When you return, announce some sort of video you have on your phone you were wanting to show her (TikTok, fb reels), sit next to her on the couch, and show her. Doesn’t even have to be a good one. You’re now most likely making subtle physical contact. If you’re not, get a smaller couch.

  3. ⁠Continue the conversation and DO NOT indicate in the slightest that it’s awkward you sat next to her. Now you’re gonna want to look for an opening to touch her thigh. Nonchalant during a comfortable break in the conversation, or supportive during an intense part, doesn’t matter, get the hand on the thigh.

4.Then you need the look. The look that says “you are going to remember this night for the rest of your life”. She’s not. But she has to think she is 😂 Your hand is on her thigh. After about five minutes, start giving her the look. Ease into it, don’t just start staring immediately, but within about 5 minutes it should be pretty steady. Over those five minutes consistently lower your voice but make it sound like you’re doing it naturally because you’re aroused. So now she’s kind of squirming around in her seat a bit. Success.

  1. Don’t peck. Start with a couple like medium kisses, but ok now whether you’re all wound up or not, you have to act like you’re going to fucking die if your tongue isnt down her throat. About 30 seconds into that, you grab her by the hair on the back of her head. Pull it pretty hard, like imagine if someone were pulling your hair, use enough pressure to go just a little bit past painful. Be careful though. There’s a good chance she’ll start moaning and grabbing you. 1-3 minutes (kinda gotta feel out the vibe) into it and you move the hand up the thigh and attempt a breast grab.

  2. Profit