Inner game: Do things that make you proud. Achieve things. Things such as living your life as you want to live. Go for jogs, learn a language, join a sports team, share your knowledge somewhere, write a blog, learn to dance, take courses in something that interests you, invest in your hobby, invest in your interests, change your lifestyle to suit you. Start taking pride in yourself by doing things that make you proud. You are your own man, so don't let others decide how you should live. Listen to yourself. Don't let life control you, but you shape your life. Investment - recognise when you invest in others more than they invest in you. For men and women. When you are asking for attention, you are weak. An interaction/friendships is of mutual interest, never one-sided. Expanding comfort zone - do the things you are scared of. Go talk to that girl, go tell a girl you like her, make mistakes, make a move, go for a kiss, push your limits, talk to strangers. Whenever you are scared to do it, do it anyway. Mantras and self-affirmations - what kind of man do you want to be? strong, confident, attractive, decisive? Start saying this shit to yourself, often, and create a mantra about it. Dress - do you have some clothes that make you feel better than other clothes? Wear that shit, get more of similar clothing. When you feel your best, you act your best. Morning routine - for me, I feel best showered and shaved, so I do this often. I also meditate 5 minutes on why I am happy and the kind of man I want to be. I also do press-ups and pull-ups. Feeling good about yourself is not natural. It is about maintenance. You need to maintain yourself by doing all these things that sounds ridiculous but are helpful. Take charge of your life - job, place of living, house, hobbies, friends, how people treat you. Be man enough to make the life you want, or to strive for it. Be brave.

All of these breed self-respect. You start valuing yourself more. Women are intuitive and feel this shit. Women will value you as a friend, as authority, and, most importantly, as a lover.

When you have self-respect, self-value, you don't need a woman. She is there to compliment your awesome life, not to solve your depression and lack of direction. That's a bad basis for your mindset and a relationship, putting all your eggs in her basket. You want women, but you don't need them. A woman is playing difficult, is uninterested? Next woman. When you self-value, they will value you. You meet a woman, you show her interest unashamedly, you escalate on her by Kino or asking her out. If she doesn't want to, she will tell you. How to understand women, mixed signals? Stop listening to their words and look at their actions. Women communicate differently than us men. They want an experience, excitement, mystery, intrigue. All these mean romance. A woman tells you she won't be with you but comes to watch a movie at your house? Look at actions. Sit next to her, hug her, make a move. A woman tells you she won’t kiss/sleep with you, or that she doesn’t like you. Does she stick around? Make a move on her. Being friends with a girl you like is terrible. It is better to lose her by making a move. She will respect you more. Polarising women - You need to get a reaction from women. There is no use for "snaking" to her vagina by being lukewarm and nice. You are a man. You make moves by flirting, asking out, kino etc. if ACTS uninterested, stop. If she ACTS interested but says she is uninterested, keep going. When a woman is truly uninterested, she leaves, she walks out. Flirting - learn what constitutes as flirting. Google flirting, how to do it and how women flirt. Learn it, memorise it, recognise it, flirt back. Sexual tension - Google this shit. Start making creepy moves, start making women uncomfortable. Attraction is an emotional reaction. Women need emotional reactions from you. We men are simple. We see woman, we immediately say "yes" or "no". Women need to be excited. What one woman finds exciting about you, another will find creepy. Creepy is good. Don't be scared of this word. Creepy is showing your sexual interest (what other interest can you have in women? They are the fucking other sex). Get your “creep” on to filter the girls that are interested to those that are not, immediately. Eye contact – do you want to learn a superpower with women? Women are good at eye-contact. Men are shit at it. Start looking women right in the eye, and hold it! Don’t look away. Talk to them slowly, and look right in the eye. Maintaining eye contact makes you feel closer to one another, and it raises the tension. Lots and lots of eye contact. This is a pick-up commandment. Eye contact and kino, eye contact and kino.
Emotional connections - Make real connection with people. Ask what they learned about something, or how they felt about something, or what led them to a decision. For men and women. This shit makes you feel closer to one another. Share about yourself equally. Make immediate connections with people around you. People feel closer to you when YOU KNOW A LOT ABOUT THEM. Being a bitch - stop being a bitch. Supplication - stop supplicating to anybody. Going out of your way to do anything for anybody, means being their bitch. Stop saying things that you think women want to hear. Being sweet, kind, good friend, generous etc. - stop it. Do you act like that around men? Stop pretending. Be yourself. Investment in a woman - do not buy her stuff, go out of your way to meet her, to do something for her, help her, BEFORE you get to kiss her or even sex. When you do these things before, your value as a help/friend/listener/personal psychologist/personal bitch/advisor/handyman/sugar-daddy increase. What has anyone you just met done to deserve your efforts? This shows that you feel you need to impress her with things you can do, as opposed to with you. You are the prize. YOU. Just the way you are treating her. You are the fucking prize. Ask yourself, what has SHE done to impress you? Why should you be impressed? A vagina seems like it's enough, but if you act like her vagina is enough to impress you, you lost.

All these things make you value yourself more. This is naturally attractive to women. I immigrated when I was 13 to another country. I felt ugly and out of place. I felt boring. My mother died when I was 18. I went to university and was addicted to drugs for 2 years, and my social life was my druggy friends. I studied a subject I hated. I was with friends I didn’t like. I was living a life I didn’t like. I was being a person I didn’t like. No wonder I got no women during that time. When I managed to get a girlfriend at 21, I put all my weight of happiness on her. No wonder this was a bad dynamic. I am 26 now. I travelled for 3 months alone, I joined the gym, I lived abroad for 1 year and taught English, I lived abroad in another place for 6 months and worked, I learned Spanish to an advanced level from scratch, I surround myself with positive people. And then I started employing the above things. Let’s just say that my success level improved. The best thing you can do is improve yourself to feel happy, to living life as you want to live. The second thing is to learn outer game. They go together. Good luck all

Edit 2: Forgot to add - When escalating with women, don't ask for permission, not to kiss, not to hug, not to shag. They give you permission by sticking around when you show sexual intent. Google "how do women show interest". "how to know a woman is interested". If they touch you, look you lots in the eye, show curiosity with you, engage with you, tease you, do accidental touching with you, smile at you, then you have green light.