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[β]HorseMuzzle 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to understand that attractive girls on Instagram get DMs from random dudes ALL the time. On top of that, DMing someone on Instagram doesn't allow you to display many of your attractive qualities; all she knows is what you look like physically, and since attraction from women is heavily emotion-based, she's not going to feel inclined to respond to you warmly or even at all.
You're better off approaching attractive girls in person.
[β]clevelandtyler2 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've had a little bit of success on there. I always just say "Hey you seem really cool! And cute, you should get to know me π." Actually works pretty well usually. I'm a pretty attractive guy though so results may vary.
[β]MysticalQuack -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Instagram. Sucks.
I got rejected multiple times on that app. There really is nothing you can do.
[β]Eclectiqque -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I initiated several successful conversations asking what the name means or asking something related to what I saw on their account. Just imagine you're asking a friend
[β]Uniquestudentquests 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I've got no idea what to say. I approached her by standing out something in her photos, now i dont know what else to say.
[β]Eclectiqque -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
DM her with something innocent. Watch out if she tends to be cooperative (i.e. continue the conversation). If she doesn't, skip her
I don't think I'd mention something specific from one of her pictures because it makes it obvious you've been stalking her profile. Just say "you seem cool get to know me" or something to that effect. Show general interest, nothing specific.
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