| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Something I noticed about myself, hopefully others can relate. | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 03:24 PM | |
| 9 | Naturally quiet guy, having trouble with cold approaches and crowded settings | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 07:54 PM | |
| 2 | #-close, but did I do the right thing? | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 04:25 PM | |
| 2 | Issues with Spontaneity | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 01:46 PM | |
| 2 | Just had to express how grateful I am for you guys... | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 04:54 PM | |
| 1 | Heading to Montreal for a few days, gonna be staying in a hostel. Any tips for getting laid? | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 05:01 AM | |
| 1 | No More Regrets | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 08:30 PM | |
| 0 | Don't know how to proceed... | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 07:12 PM | |
| 0 | Starting a 30-day challenge? | HorseMuzzle | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 11:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | The Simpsons is really showing its age.A case of art reflecting real life, for sure. | /r/MGTOW | 07/01/20 03:51 PM |
| 25 | Stay vigilant and Happy New Year MgtowsNah that's all useful information for us. It's tough to accept and I'd rather it not be my reality, but bottom line is, know your enemy. | /r/MGTOW | 01/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 14 | Guys who got fit/muscular, how did that help your game?100% it has. I've been lifting for 10 years or so now. Prior to that I was very skinny, and the amount of attention I got from girls (obvious attention, like lingering stares, eyes drifting down to stare at my arms or chest, making excuses to touch me, etc) increased the fitter I got. Might also attribute that to puberty, though; I started lifting in the 9th grade. I find that being huge and bulky isn't nearly as important as being lean and having definition when it comes to getting girls' atten… | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Are You Trying To Get Hot Women Only To Impress Your Friends?I'm fairly young (22) and I go after girls pretty much based solely on what I think of them. There are plenty of girls that I've thought are 8+'s that my friends say are 5's or 6's that I go for anyway because I find them attractive. Now this isn't to say that I don't enjoy "showing off" a girl that's more "universally" attractive to my friends, but it's not a requirement for me to pursue a girl to begin with. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Should I go for this girl? (I'm 21 and she's 16 turning 17 in December)Just make sure she's of legal age and that's it. I know some people might say that it's not that big of an age gap (and it's not), but legality is what matters. It's not worth being labeled as a sex offender for one girl. You never know. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 08:56 PM |
| 6 | What is the source of loneliness? How did you get over the feeling?I can agree with you 100% on this. Like there's times when I dread starting to get into dating/talking to a girl because I know that when it eventually ends, I'll be crushed. I always have to make sure to keep all my needy emotions pushed back in order to prevent myself from coming on too clingy, even in further stages of a relationship. It feels like a constant battle to hide those kinds of feelings. Although I still fight these problems ALL the time, I've found that both abundance mentality (t… | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 04:35 PM |
| 18 | Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teethYep, online dating isn't what it used to be at all. Like a lot of the other people here, I've found that my success rate has severely dropped since like late-2015ish? Maybe even earlier than that, not sure if I'm remembering correctly. Being in college, I find it easier to meet girls in person now anyway | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Do you really find it's easier to attract women when you are interacting with them while being horny/hard?Yeah I get what you're saying, sometimes all that sexual energy makes it difficult to focus on the interaction. I usually have to find a nice middle ground between ragingly horny and relatively calm if I want to succeed (this is just me, don't know about anyone else). | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 12:03 PM |
| 5 | All the major love theories & What to do to make people fall crazy in love with youAdvertising! | /r/seduction | 09/11/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | You have to understand that attractive girls on Instagram get DMs from random dudes ALL the time. On top of that, DMing someone on Instagram doesn't allow you to display many of your attractive qualities; all she knows is what you look like physically, and since attraction from women is heavily emotion-based, she's not going to feel inclined to respond to you warmly or even at all. You're better off approaching attractive girls in person. | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 10:15 AM |
| 2 | why is intelligence not important to girls?How do you display your intelligence? Intelligence can be an attractive trait to some women (in the regards of being able to hold an intellectual, meaningful conversation), but if you're constantly flaunting it to make yourself look better, it's obviously not going to be attractive because then you just look like a cocky douche. | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 04:39 PM |
| 2 | [M 21] Is my looks preventing me from getting girls? Please judge me.Go to /r/SkinCareAddiction and get some advice on what to do with your skin. Or, better yet, go straight to a dermatologist. Start working out so you can lose some weight/build muscle, and that should make your face look more attractive. You look young now, I wouldn't have guessed you were 21. Not necessarily a bad thing, but that might be holding you back a bit. Remember that looks aren't everything, and that while they are important, they can be fixed by a simple change of wardrobe. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Any of you dated girls that were taller than youYeah I'm a pretty short guy (5'5") and to be honest the majority of girls I've dated are taller than me, some by a lot (like 6 inches a lot). I had no strong feelings about it either way. Some people might give you shit for it but you shouldn't care as long as you're happy. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I have called them out?Eh I wouldn't even address it. For one, they may not have been actually making fun of him. And in the event that they were, they aren't worth his time anyway. | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 12:54 PM |
| 4 | "From Pickup Artist to 'Pariah:' Jared Rutledge fancied himself a big man of the manosphere. But when his online musings about 46 women were exposed, his whole town turned against him." Be wary of white knights. Be under the radar. The best game is invisible.Found the redpiller | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about NoFap?Yeah, every Sunday night because it helps me sleep. If I have sex/orgasm at any point in the week following, I like to skip that Sunday and just do it next. | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about NoFap?I'd recommend fapping once/twice a week without porn. Try not to death grip yourself and make it slower than usual. But if depression is your issue, NoFap won't fix that. You'll have to look elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 04:56 PM |
| 7 | This is how embracing my 'introverted self' worked when seducing women."Starting up conversations with attractive women is easy as hell." Certainly more successful than me, haha. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 02:16 PM |
| 4 | What do you guys think about NoFap?NoFap's community makes me sad, and the idea behind it is a tad extreme. On the other hand, abstaining from masturbation for a few days at a time (around a week) helps keep me sexually motivated, especially since up until recently I jacked off 2+ times a day. | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Issues with SpontaneityHoly shit did not expect this in-depth of an answer. Thank you. I'm copying this post onto a note on my phone for future reference (: | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I hate being a miserable Virgin.There's no excuse. I'm 5'5" and Indian-looking (btw most unattractive race is subjective as fuck, and increased penis size does not mean better sex). And tbh, yeah the odds are kinda against me. Most of my friends are 6'0" or taller and blessed with better facial genetics. And it used to depress the shit out of me. I'd get jealous whenever a girl said they were attractive, or when they got tens of matches on Tinder in a day while I might not have gotten one that week. But guess who's always seen… | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Issues with SpontaneityYeah essentially. Sorry for weird wording, I'm pretty hungover. I actually came to this realization at a party last night haha | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 02:12 PM |
| 1 | A little tip to get over shame, self-conscious and embarassment.Man, you guys always seem to post these kinds of things when I'm in a bad place (got rejected pretty harshly last night) and these always make me feel a lot better (: | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 04:59 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when she sends you hot photos?Just thank her then, saying nothing seems like you didn't even want the photos. | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 12:47 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when she sends you hot photos?Well since you are interested, just roll with it until you see her again. Although when communicating "long distance" with a woman I've always liked Skype calls. My ex went to school across the country and that's how we communicated. Just feels more personal. | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 12:14 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when she sends you hot photos?What's your relationship with her? If you reciprocate feelings, thank her and escalate to meeting up outside of just exchanging photos. If you don't, tell her you're not interested. Don't string her along into thinking that you are. | /r/seduction | 05/07/15 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Short, Lean, Indian: What can I do to improve my looksI'm a brown dude as well and I'm 5'5". First off, start lifting. I know everyone says it but apparently girls trip all over themselves for the whole "dark muscular guy" thing. It also gave me a HUGE confidence boost. Also dress well. That's helped me a lot too. So many people don't understand that simply dressing well can be the difference between an attractive man and an unattractive man (physically, anyway). And remember that at the end of the day, you are who you are. You can't change it. Jus… | /r/seduction | 02/07/15 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Socially awkward, introvert, can't lead a conversation for the life of meJust text her and tell her you wanna hang out sometime. | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Just had to express how grateful I am for you guys...I've just become more self confident. It's so easy to talk to people now, I've made a bunch of friends, had a relationship for a bit, lost my virginity, and learned that being yourself and doing what makes you happy is the most fulfilling way to live by far. Seduction is definitely 80% you, 20% girls. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Just had to express how grateful I am for you guys...It all pretty much amounts to how comfortable I am with myself now, and my lack of outcome-dependence. It came from just understanding that any single person's opinion of me shouldn't change how I perceive myself. I am who I am because I WANT to be. Not because other people dictate it. I don't need acceptance to feel like I'm worth something. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Greeting a girl with a kiss on 3rd date. Too early?I definitely agree with making her want to go for the kiss first, but if you just feel like kissing her in the moment, just do it. If you don't, don't. Simple as that. | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 02:16 AM |
| 7 | Really like this girl, but she said no to a date... Help?Texting her again is needy and is going to get you nowhere. I know this isn't what you want to hear but you need to NEXT her. There are tons of amazing girls out there. Just keep approaching. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 01:14 PM |
| 2 | She is fading awayReading the title led me to believe that you were trying to game a dying girl | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 07:38 PM |
| -1 | Wrote a letter as a joke. Backfired! I guess the joke is on me :pI actually think that's hilarious, she must've had a shitty sense of humor to not like that | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Don't know how to proceed...Of course haha! If there's anything this subreddit has taught me it's to be self-confident and outcome independent. I don't feel bad at the thought that she mightn't respond. I'm just curious as to what other guys would do in such a situation, and how I should handle it (I'll be seeing this girl once a week for the remainder of the semester). | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Heading to Montreal for a few days, gonna be staying in a hostel. Any tips for getting laid?I'll be with a group of friends who aren't really as into seduction as I am, so I'm trying to push them to get more out there. I know I'll have no issues approaching, just going for the kiss has always been a big hang up of mine. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Heading to Montreal for a few days, gonna be staying in a hostel. Any tips for getting laid?Sorry I'll be there later on in month. Let me know how everything is though! | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Socially awkward.. Not good with first impressions. Would any indian or any girl be still interested in me?I'm Indian as well and even though I won't say race doesn't matter, I can say that a lot of things matter more. Learn to socialize, for one. Go out and talk to people. Get yourself used to responding right off the top of your head instead of scripting out interactions. Work on your posture and the way you carry yourself. Have a confident walk with excellent posture and be sure of yourself in everything you do. Hygiene is also a big part of this, probably one of the most important. Have a sense o… | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 05:37 PM |
| 2 | No More RegretsI know, approach anxiety has been getting the best of me lately, which is why I'm going to adopt a mentality like "if I go for it, rejection is the worst thing that can happen. If I don't, nothing is the best thing that can happen" | /r/seduction | 16/12/14 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Daygame reminders before going out for Cold approachesYeah. Keep your chest up and your shoulders back. I happen to naturally walk that way so it's not a problem for me, but if you tend to slouch you're going to have to pay attention in order to keep good posture for extended periods of time. | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 09:15 AM |
| 5 | Daygame reminders before going out for Cold approachesWell I mainly do daygame so I have a few, but you've probably heard them: Dress nicely. Always have a smile or friendly look on your face. If you need to, listen to some of your favorite "pump-up" music before approaching. You're going to regret every approach you don't make. Within 3 seconds of seeing a girl you like, approach. Eye contact. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 03:21 AM |
| 1 | #-close, but did I do the right thing?Thanks! I'll definitely keep that line in mind for next time lmao. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 03:09 AM |
| 0 | #-close, but did I do the right thing?Mainly due to my terrible text game. I never know how to open or what exactly to say. It's kind of funny, because most guys are really good over text and suck in person haha (not implying that I'm good by Seddit standards, but the fact that I even approach on impulse and manage to get numbers and whatnot puts me above a large chunk of the population). | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 03:05 AM |
| 1 | #-close, but did I do the right thing?Oh of course I wouldn't let her do that, I just wanted to make my intentions clear. Plus she specifically asked me why I wanted her number... Which seemed like an odd question, I mean even though I hadn't said outright that I found her attractive, if a member of the opposite sex is asking for your number and you've only talked to them for like 4 minutes prior, it's kind of implied they're interested in you. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 03:01 AM |
| 1 | #-close, but did I do the right thing?Thanks (: I probably will text her at some point then, just to see if I can maybe get a date, but it's not that big of a deal. I thought a big part of seduction was making your intentions clear? And since we pretty much just chatted about school and joked around a bit beforehand, she probably didn't know I was interested until that point. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Starting a 30-day challenge?I really like this idea, and I totally understand the whole "not in the mood" thing, so I'm going to add the same rules you have in there. My question is where do you go? I go to a commuter college and although it is significantly harder to open sets there than it is at a university, it's the place where I do most of my approaches. There's a nearby mall that I'll go to if all else fails but during the day, that's about it. So I'm just curious on where you make your approaches where would be the … | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Naturally quiet guy, having trouble with cold approaches and crowded settingsApproached a girl parked in a car behind me after class, accidentally scared her, no number ): oh well at least I went for it haha | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Naturally quiet guy, having trouble with cold approaches and crowded settingsWow, these guys make it look easy! I really like their presence, like they just seem like dudes you'd wanna talk to... that's how I wanna be | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 01:44 AM |
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