Starting a 30-day challenge?

So I've been lurking here awhile and just putting many of the teachings here into practice. It's been amazing. Before I was introverted, had a bit of social anxiety, and had very low self esteem. Through seddit, however, I've learned to love myself for who I am, I've become much more extroverted, and I know long give a shit what anyone really thinks of me. I love it, and I want to say thanks for that.

There's one thing I want to work on, however. Cold approaches. My approach anxiety is still ridiculously high, and I want to fix that. I want to be able to walk up to any girl I see that I find attractive and talk to her. A little approach anxiety is obviously still going to be there but I just don't want it holding me back anymore. So I'm doing a 30-day challenge.

Approach one girl a day for the full 30-days. If I miss a day, the entire thing resets. Approaches don't have to end in a number close, as long as I go up to the girl, make my intentions clear, and attempt to gain her affection. I think those should suffice, but suggests are welcome so, any other rules I should use?

However

If it's a Friday or Saturday night, I will sometimes hang around outside certain good clubs. If a woman is leaving a club at around 12 o'clock on a Friday night, you know she was disappointed with the night and that's where you come in! Two weeks ago, I had this girl who ASKED ME TO WALK HER HOME after she left the club.(I was too much of a chicken to escalate so nothing happened, but you get the point).

[–]jacks_not_surprised 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I am doing a similar thing.

Rules

Approach 3 different sets every day.
Given my irregular sleeping schedule, a day constitutes the period of time between every sleeping cycle.
For an approach to be valid, you ought to make your intentions clear to the girl.
Success or failure is irrelevant.

However, doing it for the first week, I found that when I wasn't in the mood, I'd do the approaches, but I'd put zero effort in them.

HelloIthinkyourcutewhatsyourname? - watch her reject me and then run home

So I made this addition :

If you manage to get the girl's number OR manage to k-close the girl, then you are allowed to skip the next two approaches. e.g. If I get a number from the first girl, I don't have to do the other 2 approaches, I'm done for the day. But if I get the number of the 3rd girl for the day, the next day I need only do one approach.

[–]HorseMuzzle[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]jacks_not_surprised -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Where do I go?

Hmm...well the thing about me is that I am a chronic procrastinator, so as with homework, I leave the approaching until the last minute. I put it off the entire day and then knowing that I'll have to sleep in an hour or so, I force myself to go out and approach. So I'm not daygaming, I'm nightgaming?

As a result, lots of things like university campuses, malls etc. are empty when I go out. So I go for town squares(places with lots of traffic), there are about 3 close to where I live.

Your approach might be better though. You won't run into a lot of girls 19-21 year old in town squares on a Tuesday night, so often times I have to approach older women.

Starting a 30-day challenge?

Comments

However

Good luck!

Title	Starting a 30-day challenge?
Author	HorseMuzzle
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Comments	3
Date	November 2, 2014 11:42 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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