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Building PowerEclectiqque/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 12:33 PM
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Red Pill ExampleEclectiqque/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:48 AM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP16/04/17 11:12 AM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP25/11/17 10:28 PM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP22/12/17 02:55 AM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP16/04/17 10:31 AM
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Red Pill TheoryEclectiqque/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 12:29 AM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP02/12/17 08:17 PM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:17 AM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:06 PM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:51 PM
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Eclectiqque/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:02 PM
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i loved your comment. also i think it aligns with the mediation//mindfulness//carpe diem ideology. just enjoying the present will keep you happy and let your actions be led by heart/what you love, not so much by thinking. and I can afford saying "not so much by thinking" because obviously all of us are thinking a lot since we're here on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:55 PM
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i wrote it in a moment in which it hurts like never before it will go, though
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:05 PM
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so how do you let your girl know this? I suppose it wouldn't be a wise idea linking her to this post, would it?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 03:42 PM
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red pillwd accordingly then
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 06:50 AM
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or in a stairwell, or in a stranger's van parked on a public street, pile driver over the seatbacks. glad to see this becoming your signature. especially since it's confusing people in the comments lol - new meme.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 10:05 AM
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it's going to go one way or another i got you now. started internalising that if I sit back, enjoy the ride and stop asking myself (or you lol) all these questions, it will be unfolded in front of my eyes. wish you the best.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 03:07 AM
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i didn’t understand your comment
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 01:46 AM
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spot-on as always. grateful for this.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:34 PM
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never saw it that way. thanks
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 06:52 PM
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bro i think she's actually helping you. look what she generated - your self-awareness to get out of the bitching phase. don't thank her, but that's what a woman is for: support her man. even shit tests IMO are good - they kill you if you're weak but in the long run they'll make you stronger ;) she has shown you that you're getting out of grasp with your confidence. she'll fall even more when (IF) she'll see you'll come back to your original confidence, or even stronger.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 11:43 PM
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truly don't understand why people call it fake. IMO you stepped on very thin ice with thinking about her sleeping with another man and I enjoy your company, genuinely, you're fun to be around, I enjoy where we are right now, and I'm interested in seeing where things are going, it all turned out to be ok yet it was risky. well handled imo!
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 05:28 PM
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that's very relieving as it's probably the next step I will undertake in becoming even more natural. Probably the neediness idea is just like those things (idk ow they're called) that you put around a building as you're building it. once the foundation is strong and the walls are there, you take them off. like bike helping wheels. thanks for this, it brought me value. any way i can donate to you? pm me your paypal address?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:30 PM
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i'm directly requesting a post on that. i think we'd enjoy it
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:14 PM
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thanks a lot for the post. it's quite hard to get the clout you've got from the other big post, but i'm sure this will be appreciated as well one question: how do you balance neediness and She wants to be chased. Luring you close… and then making herself “inaccessible” so that you’ll chase her… is actually what turns her on. She wants to be pursued. She wants to be, in a sense, overpowered by your desire for her. or A “Total 10” knows her own value (to some extent), and she wants to feel like yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:13 PM
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when you say being good, you mean professionally or just all around?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 04:04 PM
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I wouldn't take it that literally. it could be a confident slut, but even with a shy girl, you'll feel it. she'll be extra shy or she'll saccade or she'll be instantly down to meet you if that's the case
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 02:12 PM
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had some of the thoughts you've written and you've delivered more than me - very happy to see that and learn from you OP u/The_Lightskin_Wonder hope you'll read what this guy says edit: on top, I'd recommend meditation bro. you're overthinking and my feeling is that you're missing what opportunities life may give you. I'd sit back and enjoy the ride. believe or not in fate (I'm 50-50 personally so I wouldn't call myself biased), if you're given this and not something else, means you didn't finis…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 02:07 PM
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i think the truth is somewhere in the middle of what you and /u/Fedor_Gavnyukov say - please share your thoughts, both of you! IMO if she's "making it difficult" as in playing that ratchet card of being hard to get, leaving her alone means less stress for you, no more headache by nexting her if she's not interested and was doing it just for validation you're both saving time if she's actually interested, she'll come to you as she will have FOMO (fear of missing out) and now you turned the deck h…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 02:05 PM
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so... is there anything else to do in order to git gud besides being on your mission for self-development on all fields? I totally internalized this and I'm keeping my head down working on it but if your n-count is higher than 20 maybe you've got extra input
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 02:00 PM
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unfollowed them all, unless we interacting. if you’re not interacting, you’re on step closer (or actually are) her orbiter. if she’s famous, you’re basically disposable material i low key feel bad for men when i see them following or even liking girls’ photos they don’t know as they admire her
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 03:19 PM
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which is why there is much debate between us about whether you should keep your trap shut with your women about other women you are seeing. wait a minute so does letting your women know that you're also seeing other women align with TRP theory or not?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 02:24 AM
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probably impostor syndrome. thank you
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:11 PM
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not trolling. probably impostor syndrome. thanks.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:10 PM
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by that i mean that i will spend minimal time working on game or initiating with women so that I will spend more time into developing my career (and implicitly my SMV)
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:10 PM
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stay strong brother. we're with you
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:27 PM
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this post wasn't removed - the other one was. PM'd you
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:50 PM
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safe brother. wish you well 🙏
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 03:27 PM
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with all due respect to your badge - why would we assess him like this when in fact he's not even trying to seduce her? what i'm pointing at is his frame - could have been a man as the interviewer. and I believe that his frame is worthy of being given as an example in accordance to the sidebar theory
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 02:16 PM
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I grew up in the 1970s, watching Clint Eastwood movies and listening to Frank Sinatra I smiled when you said this. I often find myself giving examples of the period of time where figures like JFK and Frank Sinatra were cherished as they were symbols of masculinity - will start using C. Eastwood as well from now on My Way is my theme song I have no words for appreciating this. I think it's even better if that was part of your early ages Regarding about the other examples, I will look into them - …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 10:31 AM
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because for me alpha is not a dichtomoy about getting laid or not. as others have elders pointed out in this thread, after one masters the SMP there’s more to it than that. i agree though that one’s relationship with the SMP is a way of tracking your progress for most of the time. JP, on the other side, is 55
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 10:09 AM
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thanks for the reply. glad u enjoyed it and i'm sorry for you as you got shit for your comments. nonetheless, i imagine it's for your development
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:49 AM
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I've seen the mentioned part of the video some weeks ago but on this occasion I've watched the full interview. TLDR: Seeing a true alpha is one of the best red pill lessons On a metaphorical level, it's like the woman is having an enormous/infinite stack of shit/dirt behind her, which she's throwing at every occasion. The male on the left of this video has to choose how big of a giant he is. But he's not deciding that on the spot. He has decided that many many years ago (and through the years), …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:32 AM
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reminding me why i chose this word as my username. eclectique, after all :) makes sense
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 03:55 AM
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enjoyed the post so I liked and subscribed the linked video. thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 04:14 PM
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very very solid post. what would you recommend to someone who tends to naturally shapeshift in-between all these four styles?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 03:37 AM
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I feel like something that can help you find people from the same city would be useful. I'd love meeting an endorsed user from london
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 01:46 PM
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deadass serious you should make a short movie/maybe short book about this. i rarely get the "emotional rollercoaster" feeling when I read stuff but this thing really got me.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 05:35 PM
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enojyed the FR, have my upvote. how old are you?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:17 PM
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instant positive reaction when you talked about eye contact. you seem like a man with experience. can you elaborate some more on stuff like this?question coming from someone within 16-21 yo edit: second question. do you think it is virtually possible to be a man with a SMV of at least 9 til the age of 21 when we can’t actually have that much of s professional success? ofc there are exceptions for this but even thes tech millionaires didn’t develop their social status yet
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:34 AM
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sincere appreciations for letting me know about zipf's law. spent the last 30 minutes reading about it and i'm very grateful for that
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 04:10 AM
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tha ks for the input about the archive part, I know it may sound like I want to be spoon fed but any extra tips on how I could navigate the archive or where to start? TRP seems very valuable it’s just that I didn’t manage to see how to look through archives - maybe it’s my lack of computer saviness
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 12:40 AM
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Like you will literally not give one iota if she walks up and leaves any minute because your life is so awesome and you're content as is. so what do u talk about in these first minutes? how do u make her talk so that you're listening?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:03 AM
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so what do you emotionally attach yourself to? nothing, cuz you're a hardcore alpha male? family and your dog and nothing else?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:45 AM
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so what do you emotionally attach yourself to? nothing, cuz you're a hardcore alpha male? family and your dog and nothing else?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:45 AM
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i had this thing - they usually feel like answering/fighting back somehow when I do what you meant by “ripping on her about everything”. somehow they also show fear about trusting me. practical example: negging her and making fun of her, socially throwing her under a bus and then later i might reach for her for a friendly hug/kiss on the cheek and she’ll say no (smiling or with a fearful face, but definitely not disgusted beta rejection) withdrawing herself. naturally, i act like that didn’t hap…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 06:36 PM
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you learnt
/r/askTRP25/11/17 10:27 PM
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so what if there’s no event? i can’t say i’d be going for drinks alone so she could join and if i say “hey i’m going for a walk u could join if not i’m going to do that anyways” i think it’s obvious it’s a half-assed excuse to have a safety net i feel like i’m looking at the situation the wrong way. can someone fix my vision?
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:41 PM
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great comm. i feel like it should be a stand-alone post
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:35 PM
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Great article. I mainly enjoyed reading it not because of the TRP points (as I've read them before this post as you did) but because of the calm and friendly tone and approach to life. even this comment Agreed. I will say though, I like women. I like them a lot. Girls are great. I don't subscribe to the whole thing of never have an LTR etc. Some of the best times in my life have been spent in love with someone who loved me too. But, no relationship and no girl is way better than the wrong one or…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:03 PM
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loved the rap/hip-hop quotes. even sang along my question to you is this: we both workin on money, fame and on our missions so that women will come to us but should I switch into a monk mode type of phase? like just work on myself all the time (business, gym, self-education) and ignore the sexual needs? what i mean is ok, i'm not needy but should I just endure a dry-spell for the future moment when they'll be throwing themselves at me? or for instance when you say you friendzone girls. you mean …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 11:16 PM
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can you go more on this part? Then throw in the merest suggestion of you having a heart and their yours. I may be playing the asshole card too much so that when I switch to not insulting/joking about her, she doesn't want to give in due to the asshole I've been. I suppose it's just another shit test...?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:46 AM
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do you have a link for that mark manson article?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:36 AM
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Boundary enforcement should be as easy as a dirty look, or the withdrawal of your attention You don't tell her not to do things; that just plants the seed of temptation to do those things in her mind. Telling her she is encroaching on boundaries is also telling her you are a man who can't maintain boundaries. When I don't even talk to her anymore (i.e. withdrawal of attention), she gets mad. So she cares - good thing. However, when she wants to know why, is it wrong if I tell her 'you did X and …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 05:51 PM
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best advice on dealing with women investing yourself emotionally is a major gift. even if they get angry or another negative emotion, they still crave for that because that's what they live for - emotions and further discussions about emotions
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 03:40 PM
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what's your opinion on being too much of an asshole with your female friends so as to distance them from you? i had that happening to me
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:13 AM
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can you go more on "observe people from outside of the matrix"?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 11:36 PM
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wow, this is my favorite article on TRP (possibly on reddit). thank you so much for writing this - it's what most of the people here need and also a nice refresher for the older ones. one question for you, as you seem Red Pilled enough so that your answer will matter for me (I also remember your name from older articles): Very positive, brightest smile type of guy, high energy, unshakeabale positivity Aloof, neutral face with occasional sneaky smile, Don Draper kind of guy (only watched two epis…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 02:50 PM
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red pill applause. well played
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 10:05 AM
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hey man, great to see you progressing. i've been through that or still am. just my two cents, the only reason i've started this comment: don't go so hard on yourself! don't slap yourself! you have to go through some missed chances like these in order to build up experience nerve will to become THAT version of yourself that will look at a girl in a train, get her IOI and start talking to her like you've already fucked the brains out of her yesterday. we can do it!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 08:11 PM
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never not throw a hail marry like you dont care, because you obviously dont what do you mean by that? you mean not saying goodbye to girls you've talked to?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 08:00 PM
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i have no idea why you're getting downvoted and this ironic guy above gets so many upvotes based on a story where they only knew one facet. i agree, after reading his comment and letting him print his vision of the scene over mine, yeah, it'd look scripted. yet we don't know more than just this scene regarding the relationship between you and these guys. heck
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 10:15 AM
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can you go more on your point?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 10:02 AM
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saved this comment. would gold
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 05:09 PM
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if by comolete you mean what does it mean, it stands for "no more mr nice guy", title of a book
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:51 AM
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so happy for u man. can confirm no fap and cold showere are the way to go
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:01 AM
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quality content for this sub. post more.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:24 AM
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RemindMe! 12 hours
/r/askTRP24/05/17 10:19 PM
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can you go more on A? regarding B, maybe he's way bigger than me and I can't really beat him
/r/askTRP26/04/17 06:21 PM
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wow
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:06 PM
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jewelry/stockings placed strategically in your place is a genius move. props ♂
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 10:10 AM
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better than OP. definitely all about being natural, because being natural will give you confidence or that IDGAF attitude
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 09:37 AM
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The real answer. Thanks
/r/askTRP17/04/17 08:14 AM
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/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:50 PM
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any further reading on this, please? Just like every other girl, treat her like a child. Flirt with her and tease her. An HB10 and an HB6 can be picked up the same way. The only difference is you are going to need very high SMV to fuck an HB10.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:46 PM
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I just find something ugly about them, both physical, intellectual and emotional. With most women after you talk to them for a few minutes it won't be hard to do this. I 100% percent feel you. I feel like I can find the bad parts in a human and women aren't any exception. However, there's this crush I have - my internal animal seems to be blinded by the fact that she's my crush and tends to negate/not see the problems in her. Actually I see a social problem (she's talking often about unimportant…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:45 PM
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exactly what I'm thinking and what I've stated in the op! glad we're on the same page. however, these thoughts collide with what the heartiste says. like here I legit couldn't care less about a certain woman unless she could offer me sex and I just dropped the bomb. She said she's not into that (and I was abandoning ship) but she still chases me, willing to talk/hang out. Could have gone the good way (and we fucked) or could have gone the other way and nothing happens, no time wasted on both sid…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 11:19 AM
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what do you think about expressing directly your intentions
/r/askTRP16/04/17 11:13 AM
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by TMI you mean too much information? got your point, thanks for the input
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 09:18 AM
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This makes you seem like a ludicrously good catch this is the whole idea. wonderful. i can relate. last night i had a girl that i kissed some days before. messaged me, came to my place, she knew what she wanted. later, she was talking about how today it's her and tomorrow it would be another girl. so this is one type of girl. however, another girl keeps trying to shame/blame me for being a player and, although we've fucked in the past, does not want it again nowadays due to how open I've been in…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:16 AM
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thank you for the input, quality content on this sub. I see you're answering pretty often in the comments. what's your opinion on whether we have to display our "ladies-man" attitude towards women or keep it lowkey. This is what sparkled my mind when you said overtly saying “I get so much pussy I’m drowning” will backfire. Of course, I'm not pro flaunting how much you fuck or something like that but how low key would you keep it? For instance, last night a girl I like took my snapchat and she ke…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 01:30 PM
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DM her with something innocent. Watch out if she tends to be cooperative (i.e. continue the conversation). If she doesn't, skip her
/r/seduction05/10/16 07:14 AM
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I initiated several successful conversations asking what the name means or asking something related to what I saw on their account. Just imagine you're asking a friend
/r/seduction04/10/16 09:46 PM
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