Thought I would write about past instant dates to laugh at the fuck ups and remind myself of my successes. Here were some of my strengths and weaknesses while on a Idate with a webcam model (I know, sometimes I can't believe it too).

Strengths

The initial approach-I didn't hide my penis. I thought she was hot, I wanted to fuck her and sub-communicated that to her. She loved the boldness and the forwardness.

Kino-I was physical with her from the beginning. She gave me her hand and I held onto it until she pulled away. Also, played with the ring on her finger and had a tight grip on her thigh from time to time.

My Verbals-I teased and made her qualify herself to me about her webcamming, where she was from and why she was walking around alone on a Saturday afternoon.

Weaknesses

Logistics-I didn't expect to have an instant date so I didn't plan for it as a result. I didn't have set places for venue 1 and 2.

Coffee-Instead of taking her to a coffee shop for venue 1, I should have taken her straight to a darker, more isolated venue with alcohol, she wouldn't have objected to it as we ended up going to one for the second venue.

A missed opportunity-When I look back over the whole interaction: -The way she was dressed: skin tight jeans and top with her boobs popping out -Her telling me that she prefers polygamous relationships -Her telling me that it's ok to grab her thigh -Asking if there's an upstairs part of the bar -Coming to two venues with me and probably something else that's I've probably forgotten, there were opportunities and signals to fuck her and I didn't take them, a tough lesson to learn.