there is this girl at work, she is not that hot in a scale of 1-30 i would put her in 16 she is going to gym tho and has been improving since january, i asked for her number and i guess i flirted "ok" she responded positive and we got on a date but as it was my first date since like... more than 10 years ago, it went pretty normal is not like i was expecting to get laid probably needed more touching on my part i was barely able to bring myself to touch hands / arm / hair just a little i mean i was doubting a lot "should i just come from behind and round her with my arms" (or whatever is called, like a hug but not a hug) "should i go for the kiss?" hesitation was all over me, i couldnt take action.

now after the date I feel like if i flirt/tease there is an "ok" response its not like she lost interest but she is getting used to it... also i text her almost every day (it has been 2 weeks) except for weekends, should i stop texting her? i feel like this will slowly decay or maybe just stall unless i change something.

Any tips about my hesitation in the date or about my interaction with her to prevent it from stalling?